Therefore, many families educate their children on the basis that thrift is virtue. Although frugality is a good thing, excessive frugality can easily have a bad influence on children.
Thrift is also divided into aspects. In some ways, we should not be frugal, because they will have a very important impact on children:
1, second-hand clothes
2. Call "poor" every day.
3. Don't buy anything for children
4. Buy things only for the sake of cheapness.
This situation has a great influence on children's horizons and patterns, which leads to children's inferiority, inability to lift their heads, fear of asking their parents for things, even necessities, and struggle for money.
Once this concept is formed as a child, it is difficult to change when you grow up. So even if you decide to have a poor child, you should be generous in these three aspects.
Don't be stingy with early education for children, because children's IQ development basically accounts for the vast majority before the age of 4, which is very important for children's brain development. The more you stimulate your child's brain, the more synapses there will be, and the better your child's brain will develop and become smarter.
A study in the United States in the 1960s focused on the research plan of preschool education for children. The experimental results showed that:
Therefore, we must be cautious about children's early education, and don't neglect such an important stage because we are ready for poverty. I have always been very optimistic about Montessori's early education concept:
A strong body can protect a person from diseases, so parents should not be stingy with their children's health.
I enrolled my children in sports interest classes, playing basketball, badminton, swimming and so on. If possible, we'd better give our children regular physical examinations, check what nutrients they lack, supplement them in time, and reduce their habit of eating junk food. Give the children some chicken, fish, meat, eggs, vegetables, etc.
When children are in good health, they can study more seriously, so that they will not be absent from school due to illness.
Books are the enlightenment for many children to learn. The more books there are at home, the more opportunities for children to get in touch with knowledge. Even if children like reading again, they may pick up a book when they are tired of playing. After a long time, children will begin to like reading. Reading will not only bring the benefits of literacy to children, but also broaden their horizons and open up their patterns.
Liang Qichao said that "all three academicians in one subject are talented", and he also said that educating children should read more books:
Therefore, children's education can be poor, but children's education can't be poor. Liang Qichao once said: A hundred years of life begins with children. Education and learning are things that children can't be stingy with all their lives.