Don't be afraid to teach bad children.
For many parents of teenagers, sex education for their children is a dilemma. Just like in school, in many families, there is some sex education for children, but little is known about contraception and sex life.
Some parents said in an interview with reporters that they are very close to their children, and they are worried that sex education and teaching children too much sex knowledge will induce them to do something they shouldn't do.
Sex education in adolescence is very important.
Sex education is not only knowledge education, but also personality education. The ultimate goal of sex education is not to impart a lot of sexual knowledge to children, but to require children to learn correct sexual attitudes and behaviors.
Is an important part of sexual personality. Only by solving sexual problems can teenagers get a good personality.
As for the way of sex education, we should not give priority to indoctrination, but communicate on an equal footing. We should try our best to avoid standing in the position of educators and giving empty and abstract lectures such as "Distinguishing friendship from love", so as to understand and discover the problems existing in the communication between teenagers and the opposite sex in time and let them think, discuss and solve them by themselves. Parents and teachers can only guide.
Nothing is more harmful to young people than stolen knowledge. When nature itself begins to arouse teenagers' interest in sexual issues, a reasonable and pure understanding of natural secrets is the only way to save them from harmful pornography.
Therefore, sex education is not passive education, but active and open education. We should educate children about sexual physiology and ethics before their physical development, before their sexual consciousness germinates and before their sexual behavior develops.
When does adolescent sex education begin?
In fact, the maturity of children in primary schools is amazing now. Puppy love is nothing new on campus, and some naughty children boldly address their opposite sex classmates. Although they may just have a vague feeling and curiosity, the consequences will be terrible if they are not guided in time. Because at the age of 10- 12, most children develop rapidly, and girls develop earlier than boys.
Other children of the same sex also have differences in the speed of development, which leads to children's curiosity, and their hazy understanding of the adult world intensifies their desire to know themselves. At this time, if they don't get timely help, they will easily go into misunderstanding and have sexual drowsiness, ignorance, inferiority, loneliness and anxiety, which is very unfavorable to the healthy development of children's body and mind.
Therefore, adolescent education should start from grade 5-6 of primary school. At this time, children should be prepared to face some problems that may arise when adolescence comes. But at present, in primary schools, adolescent education has not been paid enough attention, and the corresponding teaching materials and teaching time are very few. People always think that children are too young to accept this knowledge, so they don't want to mention it too much. In fact, it is the common responsibility of education departments and parents to let children treat their growth and development correctly, accept their physiological changes calmly and happily, and know how to do a good job in adolescent health care. We should tell our children more relevant knowledge as soon as possible, guide them to spend the sensitive stage of life safely and healthily, and let them have a happy life.
Adolescent sex education is indispensable for children. If you want your children to grow up healthily and safely, don't ignore their sex education and lock them up for their safety.
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