1. Cry in public

It's embarrassing for you to do this.

Let's find a place where no one is around to solve this problem.

Reason: In a crowded situation, if the child is reprimanded twice, things may get worse. Finding a suitable place to solve this matter can not only avoid further deterioration, but also have a better ending.

2. Can't listen to words

I've told you so many times, have you listened?

I'll say it once, and then you can whisper it in my ear, so that I can know if you are listening.

Reason: If you speak at a different volume, children will remember it for fun. Repetition can also have a consolidation effect. The louder you yell at them, the less they want to listen.

Against parents' wishes

Give it to me now. ......

Do you want to ... or go first? ......

Reason: For children, losing their temper is a manifestation of their independent consciousness, which can give them a clever choice: don't let them choose to do or not, but choose when or how to do it.

beat people

X, you hit someone again!

It's normal for you to be angry, but it's wrong to hit people.

Reason: let the children understand that it is right for people to have emotions, and it is wrong to express them. It is wrong to hit people, hurt others and hurt yourself.

5. Children throw things about.

Don't throw things about!

If you throw these toys, I think you don't like playing with them and the children. What happened?

Reason: The more parents talk, the less children do. It is to let children know their behavior and tell adults what they think.

6. Don't study hard

Don't be distracted, always not serious.

It's hard, isn't it? Then we'll take a break 17 minutes and come back.

Reason: According to the formula of learning productivity, the best effect is to rest 17 minutes. It can help children stay away from the tense environment, concentrate and come back again. Children can find their attention in this way when doing homework and playing the piano.

do the wrong thing

That's enough. You can't come out without my permission.

We can find a quiet place.

Reason: It is more important for children to know what they have done wrong than meaningless punishment.

8. Emotional breakdown and crying

X I'll count to 3, 2, 1, you stop!

Give the child a hug directly, clap your hands, and let the child calm down before analyzing the problem.

Reason: When you have a breakdown, you may not listen to anything. You might as well calm down and ask your child.