How do married couples educate their children?
I think we should stop educating each other's children and not overdo it. No matter how angry we are, we shouldn't hit the child and let his parents come forward for more severe education. Husband and wife should always communicate their children's affairs, talk about their own thoughts and opinions, and treat children, no matter whose children they are, with care, due diligence, impartiality and fairness.
The husband and wife hope that Qi Xin will work together to run this family well, support each other, respect each other, understand each other, care for each other and tolerate each other.
Remarried couples teach their children who to listen to.
Who listens to who.
When it comes to second marriage, you can't help but mention children. Many remarried couples have reorganized their families with their children. Whether the second marriage can be happy is also a big factor. Some married couples in the new family just want to be nice to their children and can't let them suffer a little injustice. If you see that the other person is a little bad for your child, even if it is only unconscious, it will be unacceptable and often lead to quarrels. Married couples are understandably sensitive to children's problems. But more importantly, we should treat our children equally, even if we can't treat them as our own, we should maintain fairness and balance and avoid more contradictions.
How do married couples deal with children's education?
When entering this kind of family, children are usually under great pressure because of endless problems. Some children are immersed in the loss of their parents, friends and familiar homes. There are also some who have strong adaptability and have to face all kinds of pressures brought by new families. Many children have doubts about the stability of this new family relationship; The changes of parent-child relationship, family code of conduct and value standards also make them feel strongly insecure; Parents no longer care about themselves wholeheartedly, they are no longer the favorite in their parents' eyes, and the feeling of being neglected and different parenting education methods make children suffer physically and mentally. Faced with these problems, parents need to create a caring family environment for their children and establish a clear, fair and unified family code of conduct and value standards.
In addition, remarriage itself is also prone to problems. Remarried parents need to be prepared to deal with jealousy and dissatisfaction before getting married. For children whose parents are divorced, their original family can never be replaced. Therefore, remarried parents need to spend some time to adapt their children to the parenting education methods and family behavior standards in the new family; Some parents need to make time to be alone with their children while cultivating their feelings for their adopted children, so that children can understand that their parents' love for them has not changed.
Stepfathers and stepmother are not easy to be. Sometimes, remarried couples think that they love each other deeply, so everything is not a problem. However, children's emotional problems cannot be solved by deep feelings between parents. This requires two adults, whether for themselves or for their children, to truly dedicate themselves to this new family. Getting married after having children will put you in an awkward position after marriage. This remarried family is called a "mixed family". Undoubtedly, some "mixed families" have been successfully integrated.
Why do married couples easily quarrel over their children?
A married couple who have no children can't understand this. For married couples who have their own children to form a new family, children are the most common reason for their quarrel. There is no absolute fairness in this world. Married couples can't be absolutely fair to their children and each other's children. On the surface, harmony is for the sake of better harmony. Once the child has an accident, the husband and wife turn against each other for two minutes.
After all, every child is what parents care about most. An impatient look from the other side to your child, or an unintentional blame from the other side to your child, you will silently look in your eyes and keep it in your heart. After all, it's not your own. You will care more or less. That's why people often say: stepmother is hard to do. Married couples need to be especially careful when dealing with each other's children. Many things are neither light nor heavy. What you say and do may seem nothing to you, but in the eyes of the other party, it may just be a knot in one's heart.