It is normal for most girls to have a very contradictory and complicated psychological state about sex. According to the research on some girls' sex education, it is found that their views on sex are really confused.
Girls often feel great pressure, both positive and negative. First of all, the behavior of friends and classmates makes you uncomfortable, but you have to follow them, mainly because you don't want to leave the ending, but you are afraid of a bad reputation; Worst of all, there is not much information about sexual knowledge, and you can't find the answer in it: not many people can talk to you and solve your emotional problems. Most girls don't have close female friends older than them to give them advice and consultation.
It is helpful for girls to spend some time thinking about what "sex" is. This question seems strange and obvious, but most people have not seriously thought about it. If you seriously think about people's views on sex, it will help you draw your own conclusions.
In the most basic sense, sex exists for the survival of species and ensures the reproduction of human beings. Because sex is a pleasant thing, it makes people willing to continue, and then have children to ensure that there are many people in the world.
-quoted from Yanbian People's Publishing House "The City of Girls"