You know, if you stimulate children's interest, one day, your children can also become "other people's children." So if you want to study how others educate their children well, you have to study how those excellent families do it. Some things are better than my son's, but you have neglected them. Really? I didn't see it! Constantly invest manpower and material resources to actively cultivate children, and then suddenly an expert came forward and said that in fact, the genes and heredity of children are the biggest factors. Even high flyers, like Tsinghua Peking University, has a background of going abroad for further study. In such a family environment, children are exposed from birth.

If you expect children to sing, you will pay attention to children who can sing, but ignore the fact that most children can't sing. Some parents never study, but they want their children to be excellent. This is a typical way of being a person by themselves, but they want their children to become gods! For example, replacing "don't be so willful" with "calm down and have something to say", and positive encouraging words will enhance children's self-confidence.

I once saw a short film on the screen, that is, a child-rearing expert specialized in making an investigation report. The camera is aimed at first, and then the host asks questions, such as mother's family disharmony, parents' laziness and so on, which directly affect the growth of children. The growing environment is very important, that is, the family environment. You don't look for reasons from yourself, but you dislike that your parents are not good enough? ! Then go with other parents!

As long as our parents manage with care, don't let themselves go, we must stick to it, stick to it and slowly shape an excellent child. In short, blindly comparing with others has caused some parents' psychological distortions and led to things that should not happen, alas! Pathetic! It is through parents' careful discipline, correct education methods and careful watering with love that children can thrive and excel. Perhaps the mother herself didn't realize that this behavior would encourage the child's dependence and stifle the child's initiative.