1. First of all, parents should understand and respect their children's sense of independence. It is a normal and positive phenomenon to realize that children have got rid of their dependence and learned to live independently and judge problems independently. Children with rebellious psychology are full of anger, pain and injustice. Even if they show destructive behavior, parents should give them the same understanding, guide them to talk and vent their negative emotions, so that children can feel safe and easily understood happily.

2. Secondly, guide children to adjust unreasonable cognition. It is necessary to patiently guide the child's one-sidedness and irrationality in cognition, and let him gradually realize that his extreme has distorted his understanding of things. Guide children to improve their self-awareness and learn to analyze and solve problems comprehensively, objectively and dialectically, so as to correctly understand society and life, especially to guide children to realize the contradiction between their strong independent consciousness and independent ability.

3. Finally, families of children with strong rebellious attitude need to create more understanding and tolerant environmental conditions and create a democratic and harmonious family atmosphere, which is an important transitional measure to improve children's rebellious attitude.