Parents all hope that their children can become talents, have a good future, and cultivate their children with the best educational methods they think. I am no exception. I try my best to meet the needs of children. But when Dabao entered the third grade, I gradually found that there was a big problem with my education method, and my children didn't like to communicate with me.

Until the second week of this semester, my children and I had a fierce dispute over a math problem about the weather vane, which was the biggest difference in our first study. In the end, he won the "victory" with a proud attitude. The child changed the answer he wrote to the one I insisted on with tears, and the result was correct. However, before going to bed the next day, the child told me that what he did was right and that he was the only one in the class who did wrong. He also took the initiative to consult the math teacher.

I had mixed feelings at that time, thinking about how terrible my mother was and educating him in such a strong way. It's not that he didn't insist, but that he insisted until the end and was refuted by me naked. After what happened, I felt that my child loved me more than I did. He can accept and tolerate my rudeness, but he is willing to hug me and say, "Mom, I love you!" " "

When I learned Article 17 of the Family Education Law: equal communication, respect, understanding and encouragement. I understand better that children have their own ideas and persistence in the process of growing up, and his heart wants to be respected, understood and encouraged. Through this incident, I realized my mistake and adjusted it in time. I began to control my emotions, listen to my children's thoughts, guide and educate them in the way that children like, always pay attention to the children's dribs and drabs, understand his personality, and follow his growth law.

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