Many parents think that as long as they send their children to school, their educational problems can be alleviated. However, many parents don't realize that if children don't develop good behaviors and habits at home, they may only become "poor students" and "problem children" even at school.
In the face of children's education, parents should first know and be clear that the main factor affecting their children's learning and personality is their parents rather than the school, and parents are the most important role in their children's life journey! The biggest influence of parents on their children is personality. I have always believed that character determines fate. Skills, IQ and knowledge are all behind. Of course, it is not necessary and impossible for us to transform oranges into apples, but whether children are introverted or extroverted, they can cultivate their confidence, optimism and tenacity in the face of setbacks.
Let children feel the unconditional love of their parents and have a sense of security, which is the starting point of self-confidence. The picture is the same class, the course is the same, the homework is the same, the teacher is the same. Why is there such a big difference between children? The difference lies outside the classroom. Really excellent students can not only grasp the details of the class, but also squeeze out the time outside the class to study hard. After finishing the homework assigned by the teacher, they will take the initiative to preview the text, review what they have learned and take time to read.
Those students with poor grades usually go home to watch TV and play games after finishing the homework assigned by the teacher ... As parents here, we need to reflect on why our children don't study consciously at all. Teachers teach, but parents must educate people, including "teaching" and "education". Teachers are people who are educated by vocational education, but parents are the influencers of children's life. Parents are originals, families are copies, and children are copies. If you want your children to love learning and reading, you must first become a scholar.
Yu Zeng said that he inherited his father's generosity and learned perseverance from his mother. I firmly believe that parents decide a child's life. He said, "My parents forced me." This school provides the same education for every child. If you want to make your children better, you can only work hard on family education! Only when schools and family education work together can our education get twice the result with half the effort.
Even a good teacher needs the cooperation of parents. The better the cooperation between parents and teachers, the more successful the children's education will be! The reason why children don't adapt to school is not that children are not suitable for learning, but that children lack the companionship of their parents when they grow up. Parents leave their children with grandparents or nannies because they have no time to educate their children. Many parents think that their children are still young and have no strong emotional awareness. When they reach school age, they can accompany their children and care about their education.
Actually, it is not. From the age of 0, children began the stage of "informal learning". Before children receive formal education, parents need to prepare for their children's enrollment and future study and life, give them proper education and training, and prepare their children for formal education. If the child does not form good study habits before entering school, then the child has been in a crisis of growth from the moment he enters school!