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In fact, this topic is an idea I have been promoting, that is to say, 18 years old has three steps. In fact, the three steps are 6 years old, 12 years old, 18 years old. But there are actually two steps within the age of six. I call the first step of these four steps emotional cultivation and the second step character cultivation. In other words, emotional upbringing is 0 to 3 years old, and character cultivation is 3 to 6 years old. These two steps are the bottom of a person's life. Then the third step is ability training. In terms of ability training, you should observe your child's learning situation and study habits from primary school, then include what subjects he is good at and where the difficulties are, and then let him build up a kind of self-confidence in the process. Then, I have a good study habit, such as being able to concentrate on finishing my homework.

Therefore, from the age of 6 to 12, you can actually cultivate your learning ability. You have trained him well in the past six years, and you will be relieved in the future. He can't sit still in junior high school and senior high school, and then he can finish it. Then he passed 12.

Has entered adolescence. What is adolescence called? It is true that although we also want to help him, his self-growth has begun to be obvious, because he has a sense of autonomy, he began to rebel, and he began to have his own ideas.

So at this stage, I just said respect education. Respect for education is actually very important. You can give him multiple options and let him choose. You must never make a decision for him. Then, I talked about these four steps. The first two steps are done, and the latter is very energy-saving. Even if he is not talented enough, as long as he can sit there quietly, he can try his best to study hard. What degree did he study? This is the degree. Then later, it is true that he can be self-disciplined at this stage of adolescence. For example, I know what not to do, when not to do, when not to do, and when not to do. What's this thing called? This is called concept.

So what I said was before the age of six, so in order to prevent children from having problems and let them grow psychologically, that is, before 18 years old, you spend the most money before the age of six, followed by primary school. At this last stage, you are basically staring at half the suggestions, which is basically out of your control. Whatever! It's the first two steps at the age of six. 12.

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The child's uncle concluded

After listening to Professor Li's explanation, I believe everyone has a deeper understanding of the educational priorities of children in various periods. Then, my uncle wants to give you some advice from the time point, hoping to help parents!

Nowadays, social pressure is great, and many families need husband and wife to work together to make money. At this time, children's education has become a big problem. When I pick up my children from school, I always listen to my mothers chatting.

"I also know that children's education is very important, but my father and I have to go to work. I really don't have time, and my heart is willing but my strength is insufficient. "

"I am very tired after work every day. I really don't have much energy to teach children after work. Children's learning depends entirely on their own consciousness. "

A mother said that despite her efforts to spend time with her children every day, her children's studies have not made much progress, and I really don't know what to do.

From the chat of mothers, we can easily find a contradiction: we have no time to accompany our children, but we still want to cultivate an excellent child.

The study found that there are three time points in a day that are the golden age of educating children. As long as we make full use of these four periods and carry out scientific and reasonable education, it is not difficult to cultivate an excellent child!

Get up in the morning and then go out.

As the saying goes, a day's plan lies in the morning. Morning is the clearest and most acceptable time.

However, many families spend their mornings like this. Parents get up when they realize that they are going to be late, quickly pack up themselves and their children, buy some breakfast outside and send their children to school in a hurry, and then rush to work in the company non-stop.

So what should we do?

First of all, when waking up children, don't rush blindly, you can use inducers appropriately. For example, children can be given a small reward after washing in ten minutes. If it is not completed, it will be given a corresponding small punishment. This practice can not only make children develop good habits of work and rest, but also make children realize the importance of rules in a subtle way.

Next, you can have a loving interaction with your child before sending him to school. A word of encouragement will make you and your child full of energy and have enough energy to face the challenge of this day.

When the children came home from school,

Parents must understand that although you are tired after a day's work, your child has also experienced a day of intense study and needs to relax physically and mentally.

After school, talking to children about interesting things that happened at school today can also reduce the risk of tit-for-tat in adolescence, so that children can develop the habit of sharing with their parents.

Parents can also share interesting things or difficulties with their children at work, so as to close the distance with them. Parents must pay attention to sharing and keep a positive attitude, because this will directly affect the formation of children's three views and their future style of doing things. Remember! ! !

Before going to bed

As we all know, before going to bed at night, you need to relax wholeheartedly in order to have a stable sleep, so parents are advised not to preach or criticize their children too much at this time.

Bedtime is the most effective time for parent-child interaction, and telling stories or reading poems to children is a better way. Experience shows that the brain has a strong memory before going to bed, and it is generally difficult to forget what you remember before going to bed. Therefore, sleeping is the golden age of accumulating knowledge.

It is also important to say "I love you" to children before going to bed. This sentence seems short, but it can greatly warm the feelings between you and your child. Parents and friends should not be too shy!

-Special thanks to this issue-

Professor Li Meijin.

The Founder of Education-Dr. Wang

After reading today's article, I believe all parents understand the prime time of children's education and the prime time of daily companionship. I hope that in future education, parents can remember these periods and times! It's no small matter for children. I am his uncle. See you tomorrow!