Children go to kindergarten. As a mother, who doesn't want to hear the good news from school? However, every parent-teacher meeting disappoints the mother, because everyone has a clever child, but her child is a "stupid" person.
When attending the parent-teacher conference for the first time, the kindergarten teacher said, "Your son has ADHD, so he can't sit on the bench for three minutes. You'd better take him to the hospital. " On the way home, her son asked her what the teacher said. Her nose hurts, and she almost cried. Because of the 30 children in the class, only he performed the worst; Only to him, the teacher showed disdain. However, she still told her son, "The teacher praised you. She said the baby was great. She can't sit on the bench for a minute, but now she can sit for three minutes. Other parents envy their mothers because only the baby has improved in the class. " That night, her son ate two bowls of rice for the first time and didn't feed it.
My son went to primary school. At another parent-teacher meeting, the teacher said, "There are 50 students in the class. Your son ranked 49th in this math exam. I suspect that he is mentally retarded. You'd better take him to the hospital for examination. " She shed tears on the way home. However, when she came home and saw her frightened son, she cheered up again and said to her son sitting at the table, "The teacher is full of confidence in you. He said, you are not a stupid boy, you are great. As long as you put your heart into it, you will definitely surpass your deskmate. This time, your deskmate ranked 2 1. " When she said this, she found her son's dim eyes full of joy, and his depressed face suddenly spread out. The next day, my son went to school earlier than usual. The child went to junior high school and held another parent-teacher meeting. The teacher told his mother, "according to your son's current grades, there is little hope of entering a key middle school." She walked out of school anxiously. At this time, she found her son waiting for her and told him, "The class teacher said you were great. As long as you work hard, there is hope to be admitted to a key high school. "
After graduating from high school, when my son handed Tsinghua University's admission notice to his mother, he cried and said, "Mom, I always knew that I was not a clever boy, but you." At this time, she was mixed with sorrow and joy, and could no longer restrain the tears that had condensed in her heart for more than ten years, letting it drop on the admission notice in her hand.
Chapter two: The story of mothers educating their children.
The first time I attended a parent-teacher conference, the kindergarten teacher said that your son had ADHD and could not sit on the bench for three minutes. You'd better take him to the hospital. On the way home, the son asked her what the teacher said. Her nose was so sour that she almost shed tears, because of the 30 children in the class, only he performed the worst. Only to him, the teacher showed disdain. But she still told her son: "The teacher praised you, saying that the baby can't sit on the bench for 1 minute, and now he can sit for three minutes. The mothers of other children envy their mothers because only the baby can't enter the class. " That night, her son ate two bowls of rice for the first time and didn't let her feed him.
My son is in primary school. At the parent-teacher meeting, the teacher said that your son ranked 40th among 50 students in the class. We suspect that he is a little mentally retarded. You'd better take him to the hospital for examination. She shed tears on her way home.
However, when she got home, she said to her son sitting at the desk, "The teacher is full of confidence in you and says that you are not a stupid child. As long as you put your heart into it, you will surpass your deskmate who ranks 2 1. When she said this, she found her son's dim eyes suddenly filled with light, and his depressed face suddenly tightened.
After the children went to junior high school, they held another parent-teacher meeting. She sat in her son's seat, waiting for the teacher to call his name, because at every parent-teacher meeting, her son's name was always called to the ranks of poor students. This time, however, to her surprise, she didn't hear it until the end. She was not used to it, so she asked the teacher. The teacher told her: "According to your son's current grades, it is a bit dangerous to enter a key high school." When she found her son waiting for her, she walked out of school in surprise. On the way, she held her son's shoulder and felt a kind of unspeakable sweetness in her heart. She told her son, "The class teacher is very satisfied with you. He said that as long as you work hard, you have great hopes to be admitted to key high schools. "
Graduated from high school. When the first batch of university admission notices were issued, she had a hunch that her son was admitted to Tsinghua, because when she applied for the exam, she told her son that she believed he could be admitted to this university. His son taught her a courier with the words "Tsinghua University Admissions Office" from school, and suddenly he turned and ran to his room and burst into tears. The son cried and said:
"Mom, I know I'm not a smart boy, but can only you appreciate me in this world?" ?
At this time, she was sad and happy, and could no longer hold back the tears that had condensed in her heart for more than ten years, letting her wet the envelope in her hand. Therefore, parents should not compare their children's shortcomings with the advantages of people all over the world, but should look at their advantages with a magnifying glass and encourage their children to make progress.
Chapter three: The story of mothers educating their children.
Stories about mothers educating their children.
Dou Yanshan, formerly known as Dou, was born in the post-Jin period of the Five Dynasties. His hometown is Yuyang in Jizhou, which is Jixian in Tianjin today. Yuyang originally belonged to the ancient Yan state, located in Yanshan area, and was later called Doudou Yanshan.
Dou Yanshan was born in a wealthy family and is a famous local rich man. Said that Dou Yanshan was a bad person and immoral. 30 years old, he has no children. One night in a dream, his dead father said to him, "you have bad intentions, bad morals and a bad reputation." If you don't repent and turn over a new leaf, you will not only have no son for a lifetime, but also be short-lived. " You should quickly change the way you do good deeds and accumulate good deeds. Only in this way can you save the will of God and turn over a new leaf.
From then on, Dou Yanshan made up his mind to repent. One day, he found a bag of money in the inn. In order to find the owner, he waited in the inn all day. The shopkeeper returned to the inn to look for it, and he returned a bag of silver to the shopkeeper intact. Once, a poor servant stole 200 yuan, afraid of being found out, wrote a piece of paper saying that he would sell 200 yuan to pay off his debts, and hung it on his little daughter's arm and ran away. Seeing this situation, Dou adopted the little girl, and when she reached the age of marriage, Dou gave her 200 dollars. The servant came back and gratefully painted a portrait of Dou, praying for his longevity day and night.
Dou Yanshan has done good deeds all his life, but if a woman can't get married, he will pay the price. If you can't bury it without money, you will bury it at your own expense; Dou Yanshan also set up a private school at home, and invited famous teachers to teach. Some families, because they can't afford to send their children to private schools, take the initiative to pick them up and waive tuition fees.
Later, his wife gave birth to five sons. He devoted all his energy to the training and education of his sons. Under his careful training and education, all five sons have become useful talents, and graduated from the department one after another: the eldest son is a scholar, awarded a bachelor's degree in Hanlin, and served as a minister of rites; The second son is a scholar, awarded a bachelor's degree in Hanlin, and served as assistant minister of the Ministry of Rites; The third son is used to fill the vacancy; The fourth son is a scholar, awarded a bachelor's degree in Hanlin and served as an admonition officer; Wu Zi used to be a living lang. At that time, people called Dou the Five Dragons.
Feng Dao, assistant minister, once wrote a poem: "Dou Jiaozi of Yanshan is a righteous road." . Lingchun is an old tree, and Dangui has five branches. The five branches of Danguifang mentioned here are a tribute to the five sons of Dou Yanshan.
Song Fan Zhongyan's "The Cup of Fighting" said: Fighting people is the doctor of the left. It is a temporary standard to be promoted to the first place.
The story of Wuzi's graduation from the discipline still has an important influence on modern family education.