In this case, it is extremely unfavorable to the child's growth, not only will it not arouse the child's self-esteem, but it will also lead to serious damage to the child's self-esteem. This makes him feel extremely inferior and thinks that he can't do anything well and do everything wrong.
When you encounter problems that you can't solve or haven't dealt with before, you will be extremely afraid, feel inferior, condemn yourself, and even have some extreme psychology, which is brought to children by frustration education. In the process of children's growth, parents constantly bruise their children's self-esteem, which leads to their lack of independent and complete personality, and they will feel that they are missing a lot in the future growth process.
Moreover, in this educational environment, it is often difficult for a child to feel the love of his parents, and he will feel very lonely. No one can understand and tolerate him, and no one gives him any praise. So he may go astray because of some compliments from others in the future. Because such a child lacks love and encouragement, even if he is given a little sweetness, he will swallow both sugar and sugar-coated shells in one breath.
In addition, in the process of family education, parents should set an example. Many parents are duplicitous when educating their children and say a set of things for their children to do, but their children's performance can never be according to their own ideas. In this way, the child has a very contradictory psychology. He doesn't know what is right and what is wrong. He can only imitate his parents' behavior, which leads to mistakes.
In addition, in the process of family education, parents often particularly like to spoil their children, and children make a little mistake, which parents think is no big deal. In this case, it is extremely easy to indulge the child and make him change his mind, so we must not tolerate these small mistakes.