I don't know if you have observed it, but it seems that most dads love their daughters, which is also called "lover". Have you ever thought about this situation? Why such a tough big man will gradually become gentle in the process of raising a female treasure, and even sometimes they will be willing to make her laugh, let him put on a gauze skirt, sell cute and so on. , all to see her smile! But in contrast, look at the attitude of Bao dads to raise their sons. This is a matter of course, one is "stepping on the ground"! A lot of times, one second I was yelling at my son, and the next, when it came to Nvbao, I immediately smiled.

What are the differences between Bao dads when raising boys and girls? Let's have a look.

1, pocket money

I believe everyone has heard the saying: female treasures should be raised well, and male treasures should be properly poor! In fact, this is also recognized by most Bao dads. Many times, they can really reduce the pocket money of male treasures, while for female treasures, they will give as much as possible. Because they think that only by enriching female treasures, especially in terms of money output, will they grow up completely indifferent to the small profits that those men outside give them. Simply put, it is to indirectly cultivate their high requirements!

As for male treasures, they think that boys should learn to bear hardships properly, give less pocket money and exercise restraint. Only by giving them proper guidance at ordinary times will they think about creating conditions for themselves correctly!

2. Attitude

As for the difference in attitude, it is still very big. When dealing with female treasures, Bao dads always speak softly and try to communicate in a tactful and gentle way. Bao dads hate to see a girl cry. They are most afraid that she will be sad, and even if she makes a mistake, most Bao dads will carry out gentle education. Unlike male treasures, once they make mistakes, Bao dads will never relax their education. Because they think that if male treasures are not strictly disciplined, with the growth of age, they are likely to have a "fearless" mentality during the rebellious period. If they are not strict now, they will probably be uncontrollable in the future!

Step 3 get married

In fact, for Bao Da, most people prefer their sons to get married early and their daughters to get married later. After all, it is said that men should get married before starting a career. If it is a female treasure, Bao dads will feel that they have treasured it for so long. Once they get married, more changes will take place. This may be denied by many girls at present, but in fact it is. After all, after establishing a new family, you will feel distressed about many things and have less energy for your parents!

How do Bao dads feel after reading these aspects? Did you say your heart? However, it is still necessary to remind Bao dads that they hope to be fairer to their children in the future, don't be too fond of female treasures, otherwise the result may not be good, and for male treasures, they should also pay more love. Only when children grow up in a loving environment will their psychology not change greatly!