First, respect children.
When children enter a rebellious period, they often have stronger self-esteem. Therefore, in addition to providing children with good material conditions, parents should pay more attention to their ideas and opinions. Don't always reject children, you can choose to approve and encourage children's choices, which can not only satisfy children's self-esteem, but also form the habit of children making their own decisions.
Second, communicate with children more.
After the child enters the rebellious period, it shows that the child has his own ideas and will not always agree with his parents' views. Therefore, what parents need to do with their children during this period is to communicate more and listen to their children's ideas. Many parents will think, "I am an adult, and I must have done the right thing." Order the children to do anything as if they had been there before. However, I don't know that this practice will actually cause some pressure on children. Children are unwilling to vent their emotions, which easily leads to rebellious psychology. Parents can communicate with their children like friends, listen to their children's opinions and put forward some opinions and suggestions, so that children have the right to learn lessons and make their own decisions.
Third, join children's hobbies.
Many parents often ignore their children's hobbies because of their busy working hours, which leads to a generation gap between parents and children and reduces topics. If parents want to really understand their children, they must first understand their hobbies. Joining their hobbies can relax children's mentality and treat their parents as friends. Moreover, after understanding children's hobbies, it can also increase the topic of parent-child communication and increase the fun of life. Parents don't talk to their children, that is, they urge them to do their homework or do other things, which will only make them feel depressed, thus aggravating their rebellious psychology.
What are the manifestations of the rebellious period in grade six?
First, disobedience.
Every parent wants their children to listen to their own words, but the rebellious children will not listen to their parents at all. For example, if children watch cartoons for a long time, parents want their children to have a rest, but they still want to watch them. If the parents turn off the TV by force, the children will turn it on by themselves. If they are not allowed to see it, the children will cry and roll around. Parents discipline their children, as if they didn't hear them. One ear goes in and the other goes out, which has no effect.
Second, I like to pass the buck.
Children often make mistakes in the rebellious period, but they will not admit their mistakes after making mistakes. Even if they are caught by their parents, they will find some reasons to excuse themselves. Children become fond of shirking their responsibilities and don't want to bear the consequences for their mistakes. When parents see their children's behavior, they will be more angry and unable to educate their children calmly, which will lead them to be more rebellious and enter an infinite loop.
Third, I like to go against my parents.
The most obvious performance of children after entering the rebellious period is to oppose their parents. The more parents ask their children to do something, the more they want to do it, as if they were deliberately against their parents. If parents reason with their children, the children will not listen at all, or they will turn their heads and leave, or they will go their own way. Bad-tempered parents shouted at their children, hoping to make them afraid of themselves, but in the end they found that it didn't work at all, and the children still wouldn't listen.
Fourth, obstinacy.
Some children are stubborn and refuse to accept the truth. As long as you find it right, ten cows can't be pulled back.