These horrible figures still can't stop the difficulty of sex education in China.
A few days ago, a teacher who was teaching pregnant knowledge to a 9-year-old child was accused by the parents of the students.
What is the current situation of sex education in China? Fang Gang, an expert in sex education, said that in China, even with the support of 2,000 parents, if one parent objects, the school will not do it.
On the contrary, sex education in other countries has always been at the forefront.
I don't know if you have noticed the recent new variety "Sister Tea Party".
The program invites female representatives from all over the world to discuss a topic and feel the conflict between the same thing and different cultures.
The recent discussion about sex education deeply shocked me.
Every time I send an article about sex education, someone in the background will always ask such a question. "Is it too early to carry out sex education in the first grade of primary school?" Does the three-year-old child say that menstrual nocturnal emission is fast? "We are still racking our brains to teach seven or eight-year-old children about sex. Earlier, a German female guest in the program said that when she was in the lower grade of primary school, she used props to demonstrate how her mother did contraceptive measures.
Sex education is not just for girls.
In another room, her father is also teaching her brother how to protect women and protect himself.
Many parents may find it incredible. If you say this to your child too early, will your child sprout because of premature birth? In fact, children's sexual arousal is the law of physiological and natural development, and it will not be suppressed because you learn science quickly or because you can avoid it.
Take the Netherlands as an example.
Liu Jin, a famous child health care expert in China, conducted a survey. Dutch children begin to receive sex education at the age of 4, know about reproductive organs at the age of 8, and know about sexual orientation and contraceptive measures at the age of 1 1.
Dutch teenagers who learned contraceptive knowledge before puberty did not lose their private lives.
Their first sexual intercourse was later than other countries in Europe and America, and the rate of unintended pregnancy was the lowest in the world.
There are positive examples in the program, and of course there are negative teaching materials.
From the relatively poor and backward Malagasy guests, we think of China, which was also conservative many years ago.
The sex education curriculum in schools is blank.
After junior high school, I was pestered by my parents that if I held hands with boys, I would get pregnant.
The girl hid in the quilt and cried all night.
Before entering the university, people around you will deliberately avoid saying such topics in front of her.
However, in such a conservative country, her cousin got pregnant unexpectedly at the age of 14.
Why do you always feel that sex education cannot fall behind prematurely? Because today, with the development of network information and all kinds of soft pornography, it is our dream to create a sterile environment for children.
According to the 20 16 report on the current situation of sex education in China, the main ways for Chinese teenagers to acquire sexual knowledge are pornographic CDs, online texts and film and television works.
I don't need how twisted the sexual concept is in porn movies.
Children don't have much ability to filter information.
Instead of letting children get knowledge that is neither good nor bad through those messy channels, shouldn't it be the first level for good children?
What is more terrible than the so-called precocious puberty is the disastrous result of insufficient sexual life.
The data shows that 76. 1% of middle school students don't know the harm of "abortion". At the same time, the more shocking data is that of the 6.5438+million abortions in China every year, half are under 25 years old, and 654.38+0/4 are minors under 08 years old.
According to another data, sexual crimes account for more than 58% of minors suspected of committing crimes in China, and 83% of juvenile criminals often watch violent pornography.
We don't dislike sex education too early. Our children are too young to have sex disasters.
Surfing the other day, very angry questions!
The daughter of the second day of junior high school was in puppy love, holding hands with men to buy things in the street, and ran into her mother.
After the daughter came home, the mother quarreled without saying anything, opened her daughter's pants and hit the boudoir.
While insulting her with all kinds of foul language, many parents know that their children are "puppy love" and begin to explore. Like an enemy.
I just don't know that if children are only given threatening education, the more intense the reaction of adults, the easier it is for children to take risks.
Well-known sex education experts have just said that it is harmful to oppose sexual assault.
Because it conveys the negative values of sex, it will make children who have never been exposed to sex feel ashamed and guilty, and may also affect the intimate relationship in the future.
Yes, if the purpose of education is to teach people to do nothing, how is it different from prison? This program confirms a view that in countries with relatively developed sex education, the description of sex is often positive.
Like romantic France, parents never shy away from hugging and kissing in front of their children.
Let children always feel the transmission of love in front of their parents.
13 years old, the school will also conduct sex education in video scenes. What are you teaching? For example, if your boyfriend wants to have sex with you, he will be unhappy after you refuse. What should you do now?
It's cool to give girls the right to say no without having a negative impact on sex.
As for the shame of menstruation, as a girl, she will feel a little afraid of her first menstruation.
Menstruation is a dirty thing, so it won't grow taller for some time to come ... and so on. Negative information is full of our growing process.
However, the menarche of Japanese girls is something to celebrate! On the day of the girl's first menstruation, her parents prepared red bean rice to celebrate the girl's becoming a real fertile woman!
On the other hand, most parents in China have concealed sex education from the previous generation, and it is inevitable that they will repeat the same mistakes after becoming parents.
However, it only "completely blocks" sexual behavior.
What is more frightening than the lack of sex is that, on the contrary, some parents will influence their children's sexual concepts with their distorted ideas.
Some parents in China need sex education more than their children.
I tell you a good news. June 65438+10/October 65438+July 2020, sex education was formally incorporated into the Law on the Protection of Minors.
However, what is the correct concept of sex education deserves our serious consideration.
I like this sentence of teacher Fang Gang very much. Sex education is not only about sexual physiology, but also includes gender equality, interpersonal relationship and intimate relationship. Good sex education will definitely increase rights. Only in this way can children say "no" to sexual assault.
The task of children's growth seems to be only learning, and there are too many parents who regard children as learning machines.
However, the real task of children is to grow up! Growth includes not only the growth of knowledge, but also the growth of personality and psychology.
On the birthday of his son 18, Professor Peking University flew to Singapore specially to present a special gift-a letter and condoms.
She warned her son in the letter that from now on, you will grow up.
Adults should learn to take responsibility to protect themselves and others.
Very touching.
Parents are the children's backers.
It is a child's longer-term responsibility to participate in and correctly guide sex education.
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