1, set an example. 10 years old children have strong imitation ability. A good education is to set an example. What kind of person you want your child to be, you must first set an example. Usually, parents should set an example, don't force their children to do things they don't like, and set an example for what they want to do. For example, when children are studying, they should also read books instead of watching TV.

2. communicate with your heart. Children have their own ideas. When things happen, parents should not blindly ask their children according to their own ideas. They should communicate with their children attentively and know their real thoughts in time, so as to effectively reduce family conflicts. If children's ideas and suggestions are correct, parents should actively adopt them and give them some affirmation and respect.

3. Don't do this. After disagreement with children, parents should remember not to start work, and they can communicate with their children calmly, instead of punching and kicking at every turn, which will only make their children more rebellious and their prestige in their hearts will disappear.