1, establish a good parent-child relationship. Good parent-child relationship is fundamental to avoid children's psychological or behavioral problems. In the process of children's growth, especially adolescence, parents should communicate with their children more, care more, understand more and support more, meet their spiritual and emotional needs, and reduce all kinds of negative emotions caused by children's lack of warmth in the family.

2. Do a good job in prevention. Before children try to smoke, make clear the harm of smoking and the difficulty of quitting smoking, clearly prohibit and set an example, do not smoke or quit smoking, help children establish a correct smoking attitude and intention, and reduce the influence of smokers and the surrounding society on children.

3. Treat him as a friend, talk to him attentively, praise him more, criticize him less, discover his advantages more, even enlarge his advantages, and make him more willing to change himself and meet his shortcomings. As long as he hits once, the rest may just skim the water and show disappointment.

4. If the child has started smoking and has rebellious psychology, parents should be tolerant and understand the child's rebellious behavior. Although the child's rebellion makes parents very headache and helpless, they must not let themselves go.