A person's character is shaped by many factors, including genes, environment and education. In the circle of family and relatives, the way of education will have a great influence on children's personality. Here are some ways of education that may lead to Nuo Nuo's servility as an adult:

1. Strict discipline: Parents or relatives strictly require their children to abide by rules and regulations, and only pay attention to "doing the right thing" instead of "why", which makes children lack self-thinking and independent consciousness.

2. Overindulgence: Parents or relatives overindulge their children, making them feel too dependent on others and lose their independence and self-confidence.

3. Frequent criticism: Parents or relatives often educate their children by criticizing and accusing them, making them sensitive and worried and afraid to express their thoughts and opinions.

4. Lack of attention and support: Parents or relatives ignore children's emotional needs and lack attention and support, which makes children feel indifferent and lonely and lose confidence and motivation.

If you want to change this situation, you can try the following methods:

1. gentle discipline: give children some free and independent space, and pay attention to guidance and help, so that children can learn self-control and independent thinking.

2. Encouragement and support: Give children more affirmation and encouragement, and let them build self-confidence and positive attitude.

3. Adjust the way of criticism: when pointing out children's mistakes, adopt a gentle tone and way, and pay attention to praising children's advantages and strengths.

4. Provide emotional care: give children enough attention and support, let them experience the warmth and love of the family and establish good interpersonal relationships.