At present, when many treasure mothers educate their children, their in-laws will also come to intervene. Although grandparents are also relatives of children, this practice is not advocated for the following reasons.

1. Two generations have different educational methods and ideas. Parents-in-law are more fond of children, and all the requirements will be met one by one. This method is strongly recommended. In-laws' educational ideas are still in primitive times, and sometimes they have considerable conflicts with their parents' educational ideas. Moreover, the long-term intervention of parents-in-law will make children form an intergenerational relationship, which is extremely unfavorable for parents and children to get along with each other in the future.

2. The intervention of in-laws will put children in a dilemma. On the one hand, parents are relatives, but grandparents are also relatives, and children don't know who to listen to. On the other hand, when in-laws intervene in parents' education, many things will be contradictory. When the contradiction intensifies, there will be discordant voices in family education.

No matter how good the relationship between children and parents-in-law, parents are the most direct and familiar with children, and only parents can educate their children in the most correct way. The concept of parents is more relevant to education in contemporary society. After all, parents are the ones who gave birth to him and raised him. Although the in-laws are nominally relatives of the children, they are not as close as their parents. Parents are the best teachers for their children, but the involvement of in-laws is another matter.

Of course, parents can refer to their in-laws' advice. Although parents are obviously more caring, they are far less experienced in parenting. Knowledge can make up for it, but experience and experience must be realized by yourself. In-laws come from parents. They must have more rigorous parenting experience, find out their own advantages, make up their own shortcomings and give their children the best education. This is a win-win situation.

For parents' parenting methods, parents-in-law can give advice, but don't point fingers. As parents, they actually know better than anyone how their children should be educated. Excessive intervention by in-laws sometimes backfires, and parents will be unhappy if they don't say anything on the surface. Of course, it is best to take care of the children by yourself.

Parents should communicate with their parents-in-law even if they don't admit it.

They should also let them know in a euphemistic tone. After all, in-laws are elders to children and parents. Even if there are occasional differences, we should not go too far. After making things public, it will be of great benefit to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the relationship between parents-in-law and children.