Since ancient times, many people expect their children to succeed, but not many people really realize their wishes. In the history of China, Cao Cao, a great statesman in the Three Kingdoms period, was one of the few people who realized this? Looking forward to success? One of the successful people hopes.
Cao Cao (AD 65438 +055-220), Wei Wudi in history, was a famous talent and visionary. The emperor is not only an outstanding politician, strategist and writer, but also a rare educator. It also shows his outstanding talent in educating future generations.
The Three Kingdoms period is a brilliant and competitive era. Among many heroes, Cao Cao worships Sun Quan the most. Sun Quan is also called Sun Zhongmou. In Cao Cao's eyes, this Sun Zhongmou was feudal? Dragon? . /kloc-came to power at the age of 0/8 and dominated Jiangnan for more than 50 years. He is a genius who runs the country in troubled times and is known as? Master of wisdom, benevolence, wisdom and strategy? . Although Sun Quan belongs to Cao Cao? Strong enemy? But Cao Cao still admires Sun Quan's talent. He couldn't help saying? Having a son should be like Sun Zhongmou! ? I hope my children can be like Sun Quan. Is this also in Cao Cao's Long Wang Zicheng? Dragon? Specific standards.
Does Cao Cao know? Dragon? You can't count on it. The key lies in education and training. As an emperor, Cao Liyong's power gave his son a position without merit, talent and virtue. But Cao Cao didn't want to do this, and he didn't allow his son to have such an idea. He specially issued Zhu Erling and made a statement. He said to his sons, when you were young, I loved them all, but when you grow up, I value those who have real talent and learning more. I didn't mean to scare you. My words are very important! Not only do I not favor my subordinates, but I also don't want to favor my own flesh and blood. ?
Cao Cao also made great efforts in his son's specific teaching. Despite his busy schedule, he did not forget to teach his son to read and practice martial arts. He also pays special attention to teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. Cao Zhang, the eldest son, is not very good at court shooting, but he is good at being a general. Cao Cao guided him to grow into? Military general? Teach him martial arts and impart military knowledge; The second son Cao Pi was originally a prince. Cao Cao pays attention to cultivating his ability to govern the country and the army and improving his ability to master political power. The third son, Cao Zhi, loves literature. In order to cultivate an excellent writer, Cao Cao taught him to write and compose poems.
One of the characteristics of Cao Cao's teaching is to seize the favorable opportunity to stimulate his son's ambition. For example, when Cao Zhi was 23 years old, Cao Cao warned his son: I was only 23 years old when I was the magistrate of Dunqiu County. Looking back on what I did at that time, I have nothing to regret today. Now I am 23 years old, can I not work hard? ? Cao Cao inspired Cao Zhi with his youth. This is the first characteristic of Cao Cao's teaching.
When Cao Cao was ordered to go north, Cao Cao solemnly said to him: the family is a father and son, the patient is a prince and minister, and his behavior (behavior) conforms to the king's law. I'm going to give up at home. We are father and son. After you accept the task, we have a relationship between the monarch and the minister. I will act according to the king's laws. You must pay attention! Cao Cao wanted Cao Zhang to know that he would never regard himself as the son of the emperor, so that he could indulge his carelessness and miss the military opportunity and go to hell to pay. The second characteristic of Cao Cao's teaching is not only attaching importance to teaching.