Every child is an independent individual, which is the first thing parents have to admit. Recognizing that children are independent individuals means acknowledging that children have privacy and freedom, especially freedom of thought and behavior. Of course, all this is based on their corresponding behavioral abilities. Parents should never regard their children as their own property, and ask them to do what they want them to do and become what you want them to be. This is not right. Their free development should be respected. Parents help them become what they need to be.

2 Equal relationship

Although our country pays attention to filial piety, respect and order, this does not mean hierarchy, but equal exchange on the basis of mutual respect. Equal relationship is the basis for parents to establish a good relationship with their children. Only when parents treat their children equally can they really walk into their hearts and accompany them to grow up.

3 Be yourself and be a good parent.

Parents don't have to pay blindly and pin all their hopes in life on their children, but grow up with their children and become better with each other in love. Parents will not lose themselves because of their children, and children will not fall into their parents' expectations. In the relationship between children and parents, before children grow up, parents are dominant, so to be a good parent, we must first be ourselves.