Nowadays, parents want their children to master all the so-called useful knowledge; Teach children to think if they don't understand, but hope that children will remember the ready-made and reliable answers to all questions; I don't want my children to try their own mistakes and experience them themselves, but I am also wary of children's "derailment" everywhere. These practices are not conducive to slow maintenance. It takes time for children to grow up, and their abilities are gradually cultivated. That is to say, parents should not demand their children's ability level in the future, and should not rush to impose their urgent educational ideals on immature children.

Method 2: follow the law of children's growth and don't encourage them.

When parents choose education for their children, they should choose education suitable for their children's age, that is, they should not exceed the cognitive stage of their children's age. It is a very popular educational atmosphere to develop children's potential prematurely, but in fact it is often a negative result.

Method 3: Don't give your child unlimited pressure.

As we all know, if you want to make the water run faster, you can do it by pressurizing the water supply. Many parents treat their children like this now. Nowadays, many parents put most of their energy, material resources and financial resources into their children, hoping that their children will become famous and get married as soon as possible. The high demands generated by this high investment will inevitably make parents less normal and patient, and more demanding and blaming. Children's self-confidence and ability often go from bad to worse under such pressure. Therefore, on the issue of children's growth, parents should not put too much pressure on their children, but should actively guide them in the process of their growth, and should not blindly raise requirements and increase the burden.

"Slow education" has an educational beauty that slowly infiltrates the soul, enriches life and nourishes life. Nowadays, parents need to find a life origin, a source of thoughts and a beautiful upstream for their family education life, so that they can have a clear head and a calm mood to face various educational scenes and events. Now we need to liberate ourselves from the mechanical operation of "efficiency first" and the mental dilemma caused by it, enter the "slow" educational situation and restore the original "slow" essence of education.