As a boy, I grew up in the countryside, and I know the education methods and culture there very well. Indeed, boys in rural areas are often regarded as "naughty" representatives and often beaten by their parents. But is this kind of education really harmful to the growth of children?

rebellious mind

When children make mistakes, if parents use violence instead of persuasion and patient communication, in the long run, children will have psychological shadows and become rebellious and unwilling to communicate with their parents. In the face of problems, they may choose to hide, or even hurt themselves, such as patting their heads when solving problems.

A pleasant personality

Children who grow up under the threat of their parents tend to care too much about other people's opinions, lose themselves and please others everywhere. Such children often lack independent personality when they grow up, and they are easy to retreat when they encounter difficulties, making it difficult to succeed.

Timid

Children who have been scared by their parents for a long time will become timid and afraid to show their hearts. When they grow up, they may not dare to take responsibility and choose to escape and shirk.

Lose trust

When parents often educate their children by threatening, children may not know that this is false when they are young, but when they grow up, they will realize their parents' deception and lose trust in their parents. When they really need help, they won't ask their parents for help.

Love and understanding

Parents, please put down your sticks and guide and educate our children with love and understanding! Let them thrive in a healthy and harmonious environment!