With the continuous improvement of living standards, more and more people begin to pay attention to dressing up. As a student, it is not a good thing to pay too much attention to dressing up and dressing up and blindly pursue high-grade and famous brand effects. Children's understanding of beauty is often influenced by their parents, and even take their parents' clothes as the object of imitation. If parents' aesthetic taste is low, novelty, fashion, gold, silver and brand-name clothes are beautiful, then children will certainly learn by themselves without a teacher. In particular, some parents, influenced by the high consumption of society, think that it is appropriate to buy high-grade clothes, even gold necklaces and bracelets for their children, or even show off their status, status or wealth to satisfy their vanity. Some parents prefer to scrimp and save, and let their children "not fall in price" in front of other children. As everyone knows, the behavior of these parents is misleading to their children. Children have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses, which shows that children have the tendency or consciousness of competition in their hearts and want to reach the same level or surpass others. Parents should grasp their children's self-motivation, change their tendency to compare food, clothing, housing and transportation, and guide their children to compare in learning, talent, perseverance and good habits.
Secondly, in school education, it is an effective educational means to create a good atmosphere and make use of comparative positive factors. After children enter adolescence, they especially want to be respected and valued, and hope to gain happiness, pride and recognition from others through comparison. But money worship among middle school students is extremely unfavorable to students' ideological growth. Obviously, the way of preaching is not enough to convince students, so we should try to change the way of education, let the things around us educate people around us, and capture and use information as an educational carrier in time to impress the educated. For example, in class activities, every student is required to save a little bit, not to waste a grain of rice or a drop of water; Starting from the small things around us is no better than family study, basic progress, adequate food and clothing, frugality, simplicity of famous brands, enjoyment and love; I am always grateful for my parents' hard work and carry forward the virtues of thrift, especially the special prize of "frugality and glory". Fourth, let students constantly surpass themselves in active comparison.
To surpass ourselves in comparison, the first thing to be solved is the problem of "dare to compare". Encourage students to dare to compare with people who are taller, stronger and more advanced than themselves. To surpass ourselves in comparison, the second problem to be solved is "comparison". "How to compare" often puzzles many students, always comparing their own shortcomings with the advantages of others, which will form inferiority complex; Always compare your own strengths with others' weaknesses, which will form a conceited mentality. Therefore, we should guide students to find the best reference point in comparison and surpass themselves on the basis of seeing their own advantages and disadvantages clearly. Positive comparison sets a good goal for students to see their progress; Positive comparison forms an enterprising force, which can inspire people to forge ahead; Positive comparison provides a mirror of reflection, allowing students to understand their own gains and losses in comparison. Therefore, it is one of the important responsibilities of educators to create a positive atmosphere of comparison and ensure that children are disease-free and disaster-free on the road of growth!