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How to educate a crying son
1, parents should not beat and scold their children. When a child makes a mistake, his parents either beat him or scold him. Children who are educated with sticks for a long time will not only become more cunning, but also cry more. This kind of education method is very wrong, which is not only bad for children's physical and mental health, but also makes children develop the habit of crying easily.

2. Reasoning with children. Many children subconsciously think that their parents will give in if they cry after making mistakes, so that they will choose to cry no matter what mistakes they make in the future. Therefore, parents should reason with their children when they cry, let them face up to their mistakes, and let them know that they can't handle the problem when they cry, even if they cry and do something wrong, they will still be punished.

3. Understand why the child is crying. Sometimes children cry because of sad work. Parents of such children patiently comfort and guide them in time. In addition, some children cry because of illness. Parents should also find out in time, carefully observe the abnormal changes of children's physiology and psychology, and treat their crying behavior correctly.

4. Encourage children more. Many parents are too strict with their children since childhood, so children have great fear of their parents, and sometimes even a look from their parents will scare their children to cry. Therefore, parents should appropriately change the way they get along with their children and change their attitude towards them. When children behave well, they can be encouraged more to enhance their self-confidence and eliminate their negative emotions.

5. Change your child's crying expression. A boy who loves to cry is used to crying to express his bad mood when his mood is abnormal. In fact, parents can comfort their children when they cry, communicate with them and let them express their thoughts in words, so that parents can help them in time. Then in the future, children will not think about crying when they encounter problems that they can't handle, but will take the initiative to seek help from their parents.