Good family education plays an inestimable role in children's personality formation and lifelong education.

Behind every excellent child, there is an excellent family.

Please note that the highest level of family education is to teach children the following eight things.

First, teach children to learn.

A writer once said to her son, "Son, I ask you to study hard, not because I want you to compare your grades with others, but because I hope you have the right to choose a meaningful and time-consuming job in the future, instead of being forced to make a living."

Parents must let their children know that reading and not reading are really diametrically opposed lives. If you have the opportunity to learn, as long as you seize it, life is no longer a "multiple choice question", but an opportunity to choose.

Parents should also tell their children that any road to a certain achievement is always accompanied by twists and turns and full of hardships. If you want to get good grades, you must make efforts, which is the responsibility of every child.

Second, teach children to be independent.

It is said that children are God's most precious gift to parents. Because it is precious, it is inevitable that I will be cautious and want to build a warm and solid nest for my child, so as not to let the complicated world outside affect him.

But the flowers in the greenhouse are the most vulnerable to the storm. Children who are always protected by their parents are the easiest to be knocked down. The excessive protection of parents will only make children dependent and often grow up.

After all, children should leave the warm embrace of their parents to compete with all kinds of people in society and face the ups and downs of life alone. Therefore, parents should learn to let go as soon as possible, teach their children independence as soon as possible, and let them learn to fly.

Third, teach children to receive education.

Educator Suhomlinski once said: "In the garden of human mind, the simplest, most beautiful and most ordinary flower is human education." Education is the soul of cultivating children to be adults and the basis of educating children to become talents.

Moreover, a good education is not achieved overnight, but formed over time. From the details, it is brought by the example of parents. Educated parents are the best role models for children.

The highest state of showing off wealth is not more prominent than family background, nor more expensive than school, but that although you have Jinshan Yinshan, you will never be richer than me, because I have an educated child.

Fourth, teach children to be human.

China has a saying: "No rules, no Fiona Fang." It means that everything must have a certain law, otherwise life can't be successful. Therefore, it is very important to teach children to understand the rules.

Rules are the norms of people's actions, and they are the norms that people can understand. Teaching children to be human is to teach them to be reasonable and let them know what to do and what not to do, so that they can go steadily and far in the future.

Parents should tell their children about the awareness of rules, formulate rules for their children from an early age, and establish their awareness of rules. Parents should encourage and affirm their children's words and deeds and rules in time. Only when parents have principles can children behave themselves.

Fifth, teach children to be grateful.

Gratitude is a virtue, and teaching children gratitude is an important course that parents must learn. Parents should let their children learn to appreciate all the beautiful things in life. They are the parents who gave him life, the teachers who taught him knowledge and the friends who helped him.

Children can be grateful to those who help themselves, willing to give back love and help those who can. Such children are more likely to be welcomed and accepted by others.

Children know how to be grateful, and parents' teaching is indispensable. They are usually more patient, considerate and less critical. In daily life, parents should subtly guide their children. Children's gratitude needs the wisdom of parents to irrigate.

Sixth, teach children to suffer.

Nowadays, many children are spoiled, and parents are afraid that their children will suffer. However, parents' ideas and practices of not letting their children suffer will make them suffer.

Because parents can't bear to let their children suffer, they spoil their children from an early age. Such children will become unbearable when they grow up, unable to take responsibility, difficult to make a difference, and even become a chilling "baiwenhang".

Parents can't take care of their children all their lives, so while providing them with material conditions, they should also let them experience the hardships of life and let them have the ability to stand on their own feet, so that they will not suffer in the future.

Seven, teach children to talk well.

There is a good saying: even if a person has a beautiful appearance and a smart mind, if he hurts others and doesn't know how to respect others, he can't win real applause from others.

The power of speaking well should not be underestimated. It can change children's thinking and even change their lives unconsciously. Children learn to speak well and benefit for life.

To cultivate a child who speaks well, parents should learn to listen to the voice in the child's heart and let the child speak his mind bravely. Parents' active guidance, more affirmation and more encouragement can imply that children are developing in a good direction.

Eight, teach children to take responsibility

Taking responsibility can promote personal growth, inspire a person to give full play to his personal potential, overcome various difficulties and achieve his own goals. Wise parents should teach children to take responsibility and make their children more brilliant in the future.

To teach children to take responsibility, parents should set an example and make them feel that taking responsibility is the right way. When a child sees that his parents are brave enough to take responsibility, he will make the same mistake himself and imitate his parents.

Once a habit is formed, children will understand that being a man needs to be brave enough to take responsibility, because doing so will gain the respect and understanding of others, and children will be more brave enough to break through and improve themselves.

Every child is a copy of his parents, and every word and deed of his parents will affect his growth.

Educating children well is the most sacred mission of parents.

Therefore, please be a competent parent, guide children correctly and let them grow up healthily.