Use their keen eyes, ears and other sensory organs to detect students' behavior without students' awareness. In the usual teaching, extracurricular activities and communication with students, carefully observe students' manners, mental outlook, hobbies and behaviors.

In order to better understand students' psychology, we should also let students set up a psychological mailbox, so that students can write their true inner thoughts into the psychological mailbox. Teachers can check regularly to better understand students' psychological status, and then take certain measures to help students adjust their psychology.

Make friends with students and listen to their voices.

Teachers often draw closer to students, listen to their inner thoughts and understand their psychological and ideological problems. Talking is the most intimate and direct way to understand students' psychological situation, and you can also observe and appreciate them. You should be willing to put down your teacher's airs, communicate with students on an equal footing, and strive to be a good teacher and friend of students to obtain or discover important psychological information of students.

Psychological research shows that the conversation process is actually a process of communication and understanding between the two sides. The psychological characteristics, attitudes, expectations, motivations, perceptions, emotions and behaviors of both sides of the conversation have a certain influence on the effect of the conversation.

3. Enhance students' ability to resist setbacks and let them have lofty ideals and ambitions.

The psychological frustration of middle school students mainly comes from poor grades and bad relationship with classmates. Teachers should give guidance and help to students' bad psychology, so as to form a good class atmosphere. When I first entered junior high school, many students did not adapt to junior high school, and many students felt tired of learning and were seriously frustrated.

In this case, we should let them master effective learning methods and lofty ideals to motivate students. It is a good thing to warn them in time and effectively that they have lofty ideals, but there is a gap between ideals and reality, which requires efforts and sweat.

Through the successful case education and encouragement of celebrities, their ability to resist setbacks has been enhanced, some difficulties in learning have been overcome, their learning enthusiasm has been greatly improved, and their academic performance has also improved a lot. The expected effect has been achieved.

4. Nourish every student's mind.

Treat every student with sincere feelings, respect them, influence them, and let students develop psychologically healthily. Loving students is what every educator must do.

"Emotion is the first thing that touches people's hearts." Only when educators sow the feelings of love in students' hearts can each student grow up healthily and happily in the new educational situation, teachers and students can understand each other and receive good educational results. Only when the tree of educational art is rooted in the soil of love can it bear rich fruits.

5. Guide parents to "appreciate education"

Schools focus on "how to do it" and families focus on "how to do it". Schools should cooperate closely with families, pay attention to the educational effect, give timely feedback, set an example, find out the gap, re-educate and re-practice. For our common goal, we should "think wholeheartedly and work wholeheartedly" to make our education effective and promising.

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The key to education

Communication is the most important means in all interpersonal communication, and all interpersonal communication processes are inseparable from communication. Correct communication and good communication will get twice the result with half the effort.

1. Tolerance education is more effective than punishment for students who make mistakes.

"To err is human", it is inevitable that students make mistakes. How to treat students who make mistakes? In my opinion, teachers' tolerance will make students feel a sense of care and comfort, which will play a far more important role than punishment. Because, first, students make mistakes for their own reasons; Secondly, his mistakes are also light and heavy.

2. Be good at using incentives to improve students' self-confidence and eliminate students' inferiority complex.

Incentive education is an educational method that can cultivate students' self-confidence and stimulate creativity. Generally speaking, educators tend to pay more attention to students' shortcomings, educate them and correct them.

The negative effect of this practice is that it is easy for students to have negative pessimism. If we give priority to encouragement and turn exposing shortcomings into development advantages, so that students' self-confidence can stand, it is equivalent to giving students a fulcrum for success.