Attach importance to moral education
South Korea attaches great importance to the moral quality education of teenagers, and there are moral education classes from the first grade of primary school to the first grade of high school, among which etiquette education is the most impressive. Etiquette education in Korean schools includes: 1, personal life etiquette, such as sitting, standing and walking posture, intonation, eyes and facial expressions when talking to people, and etiquette when handing over things; 2. Family life etiquette, such as etiquette for parents, elders, brothers and sisters, relatives and neighbors; 3. School life etiquette, such as etiquette for teachers, seniors and classmates, meeting ceremony and farewell ceremony at school and after school; 4. Social life etiquette, such as bow and scrape, hand-raising ceremony, eye-catching ceremony, worship ceremony and various titles in social communication; 5, national life etiquette, such as national flag, national anthem etiquette, etc.
Up to now, every family in Korea has a family motto to educate children's moral cultivation in the bedroom. This makes most Korean teenagers pay attention to politeness and respect their elders. If you have the opportunity to visit a Korean home, you will find that no matter how young a child is, he knows how to hold water in his hand and respectfully give it to his guests and elders. Once I was having dinner at a Korean friend's house, and the host's son came back. He was in college. A young man in his early twenties came to say hello respectfully when he saw a guest at home. My companion invited the young man for a drink. Seeing his father nod, the young man lowered his eyes and picked up the cup. First, he held high in front of the guests to thank them, then he leaned over and covered the cup and drank it.
South Korea is a country deeply influenced by Confucian ethics in China. Koreans believe that a person who doesn't know how to respect his elders and filial parents can't be patriotic at all.
Cheap and beautiful courses
South Korea attaches great importance to early childhood education. Before the start of each semester, both public kindergartens and private kindergartens will give parents the teaching plan and specific activity content plan for that year every week. However, the most commendable thing is that Korean kindergarten education pays attention to cultivating children's quality while focusing on entertaining. I have a friend's child named Lian Mei, who is five and a half years old. She goes to a very ordinary public kindergarten in Hancheng. Kindergarten activities in April, July, October and December are spring, summer, autumn and winter respectively, mainly focusing on the teaching of these four seasons, focusing on cultivating children's observation ability. For example, the themes of October activities are: understanding the changes in autumn, Mid-Autumn Festival, fruitful results, autumn in Korea and autumn in the world.
Other months of teaching combine Korean tradition and real life to educate children. For example, May is the Family Month in Korea, and both Parents' Day and Children's Day in Korea are in this month. The theme of the kindergarten where Lianmei's children are located in May is "Me and my family and neighbors". Mainly to cultivate children's self-awareness ability, feelings for family and neighbors, and cognitive ability for the surrounding environment. For example, in the "My Neighbor" activity, asking children to introduce their neighbors will naturally enable children to exercise their communication and language skills, and naturally let children pay attention to the surrounding "small society" outside their own families.
Extensive parenting
In China, it is often the case that parents seldom take their children out for long-distance trips. Even if you go out, you should cover yourself up and make full preparations in all aspects. Koreans, on the other hand, adopt "extensive" parenting.
Koreans like to take a family trip on weekends. At this time, parents can often see a few-month-old child climbing the mountain with a three-year-old child who can walk completely on his back. Sometimes children are too tired to walk, and parents rarely pick them up, just waiting for them to have a rest before continuing to walk. I went out to play with Korean friends several times, and it is common for them to take care of their children. The children seem to have a hard time during the long journey. Later, I couldn't help asking, will the child get sick like this, and there is no old man to take care of him at home? Korean friends think this is a natural thing. They think they should take their children out whenever they have the chance. Although the road is a little hard, it is also exercise for their children. Koreans believe that you should start exercising at an early age.