Let's talk about "teaching" before we talk about "teaching". Teaching in turn. Education is a process of "listening". Many teaching parts are completed by schools, and the education part needs the support of parents. The first point of "educating people" is to cultivate children's human feelings. In the past, many parents were rude, but there was not much problem with the children they raised. The reason is that when parents are angry, children can go to their neighbors' houses to hide and play with many classmates. With the development of society, the relationship between people is getting farther and farther, and the problems of parents' education will be magnified countless times. Because there is no neighbor to persuade and no classmates to hide, children are inevitable.
Therefore, if it is difficult for parents here to change their personality, they should allow their children to go to some classmates' homes with good family atmosphere and allow them to recognize michel platini's godmother. In this way, the child will know that many people care about him, and naturally he will be very human and will care about others when he grows up. What is more terrible than rude education is "being raised by TV sets and mobile phones" and keeping children in the house for a day. Such a child may study well because no one bothers him. But it is difficult to have a "human touch." Many people have high academic qualifications, but that's why they don't understand the world. Moderate nagging, such as asking your child if he is happy or not, what happened? Listen to him for half an hour. You don't need to say anything beautiful. Just listen quietly. The child will know that someone cares about his thoughts and his mental state will get better.
Besides, I want to mention the problem of mobile phones. In my opinion, before high school, try not to let children have their own mobile phones, let alone bring them into the campus, because if they just play games for a few hours on Saturday and Sunday, it won't do much harm. But mobile phones have too many functions, the first is social functions. If children are addicted to social networking, on the one hand, they tend to become introverted and don't chat with other students. On the one hand, there is also a dangerous problem, because most social activities on the internet are anonymous, and you don't even know who the other person is, or even whether he is human or not, and what kind of thoughts will be instilled in children.
The second is the reading function. The information on the Internet is mixed. Unlike movies and magazines, it has specific editorial checks. For example, some vulgar ideas are easy to appear in Tik Tok, and there are many vulgar scenes in online novels. Children are naturally not very good at these things.
The third is the payment function. I suggest that children should not touch WeChat payment and Alipay before high school, and try to use cash. Because of virtual payment, money is just a number. Children need some concrete things to understand the concept of money in this period, and in the freshman and sophomore years, parents should also give their children no loans and don't take precautions against consumption in advance. Because consumption traps are everywhere now, it is necessary to help children establish a good consumption concept.