Family education is about methods. For this, different parents have different understandings. Only when parents master the correct educational methods can they do a good job in this area. So how can parents educate their children easily and accurately? The communication between parents and children is not only as simple as a dialogue, but also a bridge to understand each other's situation and a channel for emotional communication. When conducting family education, parents must communicate with their children more. If they succeed, they can exchange successful experiences with their children. When the child is in a bad mood, you can communicate with him how to adjust his mentality. When a child encounters setbacks, he can communicate with him how to face difficulties. Parents can communicate with their children, on the one hand, to understand their true thoughts, on the other hand, to enhance their feelings with their children.

In life, parents have many opportunities to participate in activities with their children. For example, go shopping together, travel together, watch movies together, play games together, go to the playground together and so on. As parents, we should cherish the opportunity to have activities with our children. Because activities can not only enhance each other's feelings, such activities will also become the best memories for you and your children. Parents must not be stingy with praise and encouragement to their children. Once the child succeeds, parents should praise it in time. It can be oral or material. Praise from parents can improve children's self-confidence. In addition, when the child does anything challenging, parents constantly encourage him to dare to overcome difficulties. Parents' encouragement helps to cultivate children's independent character. Parents and children together may make mistakes for some reasons. Parents should dare to apologize to their children when they make mistakes. Apologizing to children is an art. Apologizing to children does not reflect parents' respect for their children, but sets a good example for children to correct when they know their mistakes.

It is normal for children to make mistakes because they are young and ignorant. When a child makes a mistake, parents can't criticize and blame him immediately. They should tell him why he made a mistake and what to do with tolerance. In addition, parents' tolerance will make children feel guilty to some extent and know what to do in the face of the same thing next time. Bian Xiao believes that family atmosphere is one of the important factors in implementing family education, and activities with children are one of the effective ways to create a good family atmosphere. In life, parents have many opportunities to participate in activities with their children. When taking children to travel on vacation, children are happiest if they can travel abroad. That scenic spot and all kinds of exhibitions are worth visiting. When visiting, if parents can make an accurate explanation, children admire it most. If the knowledge is insufficient, parents will be forced to look up books and materials, so as to win the children's hearts.

Take the children shopping. Children like to go shopping with their parents when they are young. By the way, they point out what people like. Parents can take the opportunity to introduce commodity knowledge and instill the truth of thrift and housekeeping. When the children are older, they can buy things for their families. Parents should be staff officers, talk all around, watch and talk while walking. Two generations should not be wary of each other. This is a good opportunity for education. In family life, parents often say the wrong things, do wrong things, and even wronged their children. How to deal with these problems is also one of the extracurricular arts. Parents and children should have a democratic and equal relationship in the family. Parents should take the initiative to apologize for making mistakes or misjudgments to their children. This will neither affect parents' prestige nor damage their dignity. On the contrary, if you make a mistake, you must set an example to correct it, sincerely respect the quality and cultivation of your parents, and let them trust and be closer to their parents. The dignity of parents will not be reduced, but will be further improved. It can also create a relaxed, harmonious and democratic atmosphere for the family, which is conducive to the growth of children. Of course, parents should apologize, especially for their children. They should be honest, not perfunctory, not looking for objective reasons, and sincerely understand.

I think the art of dialogue is mainly embodied in the capture of dialogue time and the use of dialogue methods. Generally speaking, parents and children don't talk when they are in a bad mood, especially when they are angry. Don't talk until you know what happened. Don't have critical conversations with outsiders, especially when there are guests. Children at the dinner table should not have critical conversations before going to bed. The characteristic of family education is "knowing how to teach", so we should grasp the opportunity of education flexibly. Everything should be based on the needs of education, especially the effect of education, so that children can accept it. There are various ways of dialogue, such as cross talk ceremony, investigation ceremony, encouragement ceremony, and serious criticism and education ceremony. Among them, free time, place, content, vast sky and relaxed dialogue are often the ways for children to welcome dialogue.