1. The influence of educational methods. Parental education methods, such as strict, loose and democratic, will have a certain impact on children's personality. For example, strict education may lead to the strengthening of children's fortitude and self-control, while loose education may strengthen their autonomy and personality.
2. Genetic influence. Part of children's personality traits come from family inheritance and have nothing to do with the influence of educational methods. For example, some naturally optimistic or melancholy personality traits are determined by family inheritance.
3. Environmental impact. In addition to family education, social environment, peer influence and life events will also have an impact on children's personality. These environmental impacts are not entirely determined by parents' educational methods.
4. The influence of self-choice. Children are also active individuals under the influence of parents' education and environment. He will choose certain personality characteristics and develop them according to his own interests, sexual orientation and judgment, and suppress or abandon other personality characteristics. This is partly the result of children's self-choice.
Therefore, in general, although the parents' education methods will have a great influence on their children, the formation of personality is a comprehensive process. Family inheritance, social environment and personal choice also play an important role. Some children's personality characteristics may mainly come from education, while others may come from family or themselves. The formation of personality is not determined by a single factor, but the result of the interaction of many factors.
Parents should understand this. In the process of educating children, we should not only choose appropriate educational methods, but also respect their nature and independent choice. The purpose of education is not to completely control or transform children's personality, but to help children develop their innate personality characteristics and cultivate their independent judgment ability. This gesture can really promote the healthy growth of children and form a relatively stable personality.