When children ask some sexual questions, the attitude of parents is the most important, and they should be answered with scientific and artistic explanations. For example, when a child is 3-5 years old, he will ask, "Where am I from?" Such a question. First of all, they have a strong understanding of the origin of life. Don't worry about explaining too clearly. Children will imitate. In fact, children's thinking is very simple, even imitation is superficial, and they regard it as a game. /kloc-children under 0/0 don't have that kind of motivation and ability. Parents should let their children know the most natural things easily in the most natural and authentic occasions, just like knowing wheat in the wheat field and apples in the orchard, which is of great benefit to their healthy growth.
For the child's problem, you can tell him directly that after mom and dad fall in love and get married, in addition to hugging and kissing, dad's sperm cells should enter mom's egg cells, grow into babies in mom's stomach and be born out of mom's birth canal. At the same time, it is a very difficult process to tell children to have children, and to cultivate children to cherish life and honor their parents.
2. Help children identify gender roles.
Sex education should tell children from the beginning that there are differences between men and women. Generally speaking, boys are more proud of identifying and accepting their gender roles, while girls are more passive. Now, under the care of grandmothers, grandmothers and female teachers, some boys are "feminine", quiet, hygienic, gentle and obedient, and some girls are selfish and bossy like boys because they are spoiled. These are all bad tendencies.
3. Identification of parents' family roles
Some people say that it is more important than sex education to set a sexual example. If parents love each other, be warm and harmonious every day and appreciate each other, it is undoubtedly the best education for children, because the ideal opposite sex prototype of children corresponds to parents. A father should have a sense of responsibility, take care of his family, care for his wife and children, do not smoke or drink, have a civilized language, and be punctual and trustworthy; A mother should be enthusiastic, intelligent, thrifty and know how to be beautiful. Parents should set an example for their children and let them get the recognition of family roles from their parents.
4. Have good hygiene habits.
For example, girls should cultivate the order of wiping their bottoms from an early age, and boys should also wash their private parts frequently and know how to protect their penises. If children like to play with their sexual organs, parents should first tell their children that dirty hands are easy to carry bacteria and make their penis sick. Secondly, they should divert their attention, tell his favorite stories or play his favorite games. After a long time, children will get rid of bad habits.