1 and 1 cultivate children's self-confidence mentality. To cultivate self-confidence, we should give more thumbs up and let children accumulate self-confidence in appreciation. We should care for childish dreams and guide children to gain creative confidence. It is necessary to cultivate children's advantages, let them make small achievements in study, life and entertainment, and use success to strengthen their self-confidence. Never satirize, ridicule, accuse or discriminate against your children at will. You can't say "my son is worthless" and "my daughter is lazy" all day. Because this will seriously affect children's self-esteem and self-confidence. Self-confidence is the capital of children's life. If the child is confident, even if he is lost, he can see the lighthouse in the distance from the stormy waves; Even if you get lost, you can rely on the compass to get out of the darkness of life in the jungle. On the contrary, if you lack self-confidence, children will become timid and give up fighting for good ideals and wishes; You will become confused and mediocre, and lose confidence in your studies and career.

2. Cultivate children's integrity. If a child is influenced from an early age and forms the habit of lying, it will seriously affect his normal development in the future. Therefore, family education must focus on cultivating children's integrity and integrity. Parents should use their own ethics to demonstrate to their children. The first teacher to cultivate children's sense of honesty is their parents. Children's dishonest behavior is often learned from their parents. Therefore, to make children honest, parents must be honest with their children first. Don't make promises easily, don't make wishes casually, and keep your word. At the same time, educate children to think twice before making a commitment to others. Laozi once said, "If it's light, it's hard to believe.". People who make promises easily rarely keep them. Therefore, children should be warned to be cautious before making promises to others, to consider its feasibility, and not to make promises and break contracts casually. First consider what you can really do, and then promise others; Once you have promised something, you must try your best to do it well. Parents should also give correct guidance and education to children who lie. Never help children cover up their mistakes and pass the buck. Let children know that deception and concealment can take advantage of one or two times at most; Only honest quality, only knowledge and skills are the most reliable means of making a living.

3. Cultivate children's manners. The key to cultivating children's politeness and morality is that parents should set a good example for their children. Parents' role models are the best teaching materials. Parents want their children to be civilized and polite. First of all, they should improve their own quality and set an example for their children everywhere in life. At the same time, it is necessary to provide children with opportunities to express themselves, for example, let children take the initiative to receive guests, let children understand the meaning of civility and politeness in personal experience, and parents can give guidance and help where their children are imperfect. The core content of cultivating children's politeness morality is to standardize children's civilized behavior. Civilized manners include civilized language and civilized behavior. Parents should strengthen the education of their children from these two aspects. Let children master basic polite expressions, such as "hello, thank you, sorry" and so on. Let children develop good manners, such as caring for public health, dressing appropriately and obeying traffic rules.

4. Cultivate children's sense of independence. The first is to cultivate children's good habits. Cultivate children's good habits such as neatness and turning off lights from childhood. With good habits, why don't you succeed in your future life? The second is to cultivate children's acceptable personality. An unacceptable character is like a container lid. How can it bear the dew from heaven? Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's receptive personality so that children can bear it and make progress day by day. The third is to cultivate children's virtue of hard work and hard work. "Diligence is meritorious, and drama is useless." We should pay attention to cultivating children's ability to serve the work. Let children take part in some hard work and learn simple labor skills.