Educating children is the unshirkable responsibility of parents, and family education is the foundation of all education. The influence of parents on children is one of the factors that can not be ignored in the process of children's growth, which is subtle and lasting.

Personally, I think that in the process of children's growth, we should mainly do the following aspects:

First, give children a harmonious home.

The healthy growth of children is inseparable from a peaceful and safe family environment. First, a harmonious and peaceful family atmosphere gives him psychological security and happiness. To make children develop in an all-round way, a harmonious family is essential and a warm family can be established. Only in this way can they have confidence and interest in learning. At home, we should not only give children a harmonious and happy study space, but also cultivate their basic life skills, self-care ability and will to overcome difficulties as much as possible. Be caring. Third, take time out to study and play with your children. Cultural knowledge is important, but games are essential for children. Parents should let their children get the joy of success in study and play, let their children fully find fun in study and play, let their children feel happy in the family and give them a happy room for growth.

Second, parents should educate their children patiently.

Junior high school is a stage for children to "cross the hurdle". Due to various reasons, their academic performance declined, and their parents were anxious and impetuous. At this time, parents should calm down and learn to wait patiently for their children's growth. When you usually get along with your children, you will always find that many words and deeds of your children are not in line with your parents' wishes, and sometimes even unreasonable. However, parents should give their children the opportunity to defend themselves and listen to their opinions patiently. Parents' expectations and actions for their children often play a key role in parents' patient persuasion and education, so that children can feel their faults. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.

Third, cultivate children's good self-confidence.

In the growth of children, parents should guide their children not only to work hard, but also to try their best. Even if the result is not the best, as long as they work hard, they will be the best. Only by letting children jump and succeed through their own efforts can children experience the joy of success and establish self-confidence. Parents should not blame their children too much when they make mistakes. First, we should educate them to have the courage to bear their mistakes, and then help them analyze where they are wrong. Why are you wrong, what will be the consequences, and how to correct your mistakes in the future. Encourage children to see their own progress, affirm their achievements, and don't blindly criticize their efforts and failures. Establish self-confidence for children, self-confidence is a process of gradual accumulation. Children should not be afraid to do something because it may fail, but be willing to do it because it may succeed. Because this is a step-by-step training process, we need to pay attention to this point at all times, whether in the little things of life or in games and learning. Children need help and love in life. As parents, they are not completely replaced, but given reasonable care and training. Let children know that self-esteem and self-confidence are built by themselves, not by others, so as to cultivate their independent and sound personality.

The above is my experience as a parent, and I hope to share it with you!