First of all, every child has his own characteristics. Parents should pay attention to observation, symptomatic treatment and educate their children in an appropriate way. However, children's disapproval, especially young parents, cannot be handled in an extreme way. It should be understood that long-term criticism and accusation is the biggest opponent that damages children's self-esteem and self-confidence. On the contrary, shaping self-esteem and self-confidence is the main obligation of cultural education.

Secondly, prevent verbal abuse of children. No matter how old or young children are, they don't like being criticized and reprimanded. As children get older, they care more and more about other people's opinions. If they seldom hear their parents' unquestionable praise, they will be criticized and accused a lot. Over time, they will have the idea of self-indulgence. After a long time, it is likely that parents' criticism goes in one ear and out the other. The final conclusion is that any cultural education is of no help.

Also, parents should communicate frankly with their children. When children grow up, they expect to be highly valued, and the requirements imposed by their parents will make them feel uncomfortable. As everyone said, parents may not be able to adjust their emotions when their children make mistakes, but cultural education for children is also the whole process of parents' own practice and improvement. They sincerely communicate with their children and help them get rid of wrong ideas, especially for children in the rebellious period of youth. Fair communication is still the best choice to solve difficulties.

In fact, parents scolding their children is the same as spoiling them too much, which will cause changes in their temperament and even lead to mental health problems such as depression and timidity. Parents' long-term blame may even lead to adolescent rebellion. Therefore, if parents want their children to develop in the direction they expect and become more obedient, they need to change bad educational methods. As the old saying goes, "a few dozen are not as good as one prize", and rewards and punishments are multi-pronged, moving people with emotion.

The above is my own opinion, and I look forward to helping you. Welcome to comment below.