Teenagers have changed psychologically or physically. Generally speaking, people are anxious and irritable, and things they don't like are more likely to lose their temper, but they are full of interest in the opposite sex and curiosity about "sex". This psychological, emotional and behavioral change is greatly influenced by cultural media and social factors, and is called the third sexual characteristic.
So what our parents should do is:
First, consider the age of children's development
Generally speaking, children under the age of ten lack abstract thinking ability, which affects their analysis and judgment of whether a celebrity or star's behavior is praised by the public or outrageous. In this case, parents can tell their children that when your "idol" does something wrong, it is an opportunity to learn from himself-to grow from his mistakes. Let children know that their idols are human beings and make mistakes. Try not to pay attention to tabloid news or negative comments.
Second, define a hero through behavior.
This is a good opportunity to help children understand what a real hero is. Introduce the actual heroic examples to children and describe the heroic qualities that parents think. For example, a family lends a helping hand to another family in a crisis, or emergency workers save lives. Connect it closely with our real life and make it real.
Third, monitor children's worship of celebrity idols.
If a child has excessive worship and yearning for celebrity idols, then the risk of imitating the bad behavior of the other party will also increase. In fact, TV and media are the main negative channels for children to worship. Parents can take their children to watch TV interviews and reports on celebrities, and it is undoubtedly important to realize its adverse effects. After all, children are more sensitive than adults. Although programs like reality shows are aimed at the whole family, their contents and themes are actually more suitable for adults than children.
Fourth, avoid making biased remarks.
Under normal circumstances, even if the child grows up, parents should try not to comment on the celebrity effect too frequently until the child actively communicates this topic with you. In fact, when children make relevant remarks, they also give parents an opportunity to weigh the overall dynamics of things from the perspective of children and understand their thoughts. At the same time, try to maintain a relatively objective and neutral attitude in the process of helping children.
Fifth, take this opportunity to strengthen the concept of moral quality.
Pass it on to children to establish empathy and compassion, explore their empathy ability, and suggest ways and means of this empathy model. Whether participating in social welfare activities or starting from family life.
I hope my answer can help you.