1, with high attention
Give him the best self-feeling, make him feel that he is so unique, smart and worthy of attention. He is a great hero, the embodiment of courage and wisdom, and the source of all the beauty of the earth. For example, when you look at him, he is the only person in your eyes who makes him feel that he has all your attention at the moment.
2. Don't label the transaction at will.
Understand a person in the way he wants to be understood most, and trust him in the way he wants to be trusted most. If a person wants to be understood as "knowledgeable", he will focus on his education level and reading experience. A person who wants to impress others as a "heartthrob" will talk about his rich social experience, Kan Kan, and carefully perceive how he understands himself. The goblin will only understand and treat him in his own way.
3, began to praise him, and praised very cleverly and specifically.
For example, goblins never say, "You are really cultured and will try to be specific and targeted"-"I find that whenever someone annoys you, you can take it in stride, and you must have strong emotional management skills behind you. I especially like this, especially admire it! "
Well, the more specific the language you use when praising, the stronger the satisfaction the other person will get.
4. Thank you again in a few months.
"The way you deal with contradictions has deeply influenced me. I later tried to imitate your way of dealing with contradictions and found it very effective.
Repeatedly mentioning a person's excellent qualities will convince the other person that he has really influenced you, so his satisfaction is stronger.
5. Then tell him gently that his influence on you is so great and wonderful that he has changed your life, inspired your personality and given you unlimited ideas and inspiration.
Girl, remember, when a person knows that he has influenced you, he will like you more and even find reasons for liking you for himself. At the same time, he will feel obligated to help you succeed and have a long-term infatuation with you!