Parents of children who do things slowly can be educated in this way: accept their children's slow temper, wisely urge their children and let them control their time.

Accept the child's slow temper

Everyone has their own rhythm. It doesn't matter how fast a child reacts. The key is whether he can concentrate, don't judge children casually, and label them as "fast" or "slow". If you always say he is slow, he may be really slow in the future.

This rhythm is measured by a day, a year and a lifetime, which is related to the selected activity content. Sometimes, it is a good thing for children to be "slow" to a certain extent, but it is only at that moment that they begin to understand.

Some children seem to be slow, because they keep repeating the same action for perfection. Repetition will enhance his self-confidence. There are still some children who are really slow, but those who are slow may feel it more deeply. This is not a shortcoming.

Respecting everyone's rhythm can also make children with quick reactions not feel bored and can make continuous progress without waiting for children with slow pace.

Cleverly urge children.

Instead of urging him to take the initiative, such as going out together, the child has been disobedient, and parents should not clamor for quick talk at this time! Instead, I gave the child an order: I am ready, I will wait for you downstairs first, and you still have five minutes.

At this time, he began to get nervous, and the concept of time went up, so he quickly packed up and went downstairs. The main idea is to give him specific orders to make him understand his slowness and urgency, rather than arguing that he is too slow, so that he will never understand why he is slow.

Let children control their own time.

If the child is slow-tempered, don't encourage him to force him to be quick, teach him in accordance with his aptitude, and tell him not to delay things and cause trouble to himself or others.

Compete with your child and make him feel competitive. Tell him when he wins. Much better than before, with a sense of time, and not slow. Great! He will remember this feeling and take the initiative to improve the concept of time and speed up efficiency.