How to educate children to associate with their peers
First, don't let children feel that they are special people in the family. Once children feel that they are special people in the family, they will do whatever they want, turn a deaf ear to their parents' advice or education, and always stand in the highest position to command others. How can such a child get along with others? How can I find a good partner? Parents should keep their love for their children deep in their hearts and don't show too much in front of their children. You know, overindulgence will only harm children! Parents should let their children feel from an early age that every member of the family is equal, everyone should help and take care of each other, and should respect and honor their elders. Of course, in this process, parents' words and deeds are very important! In this way, when children enter school and even society, they will treat others with equal heart, instead of commanding others condescendingly. Second, educate children to respect others. Educating children to respect others in communication is actually the basis for others to respect themselves. First of all, we should respect the personality of others, including: don't laugh at others' shortcomings because of our own advantages, especially don't play tricks on people with physical defects, and don't give people nicknames casually. Secondly, we should respect the opinions of others. When others speak or make suggestions, we should concentrate, listen carefully and understand what others mean. Don't interrupt others casually, let alone have the final say in everything. When you encounter something, you should learn to discuss it with everyone and avoid going it alone. Third, let children learn to share. Let the children understand that good things are delicious when everyone eats them together, and fun when everyone plays together. At ordinary times, parents can invite their neighbors' children to be guests at home, let them be hosts, take out good things to entertain guests and experience the joy of sharing. Educate children to donate money to disaster areas or help out-of-school children, so that children can understand that it is a noble act to give comfort and happiness to others. In this way, children will understand the relationship between giving and returning, and let them experience from an early age that it is not only happy to get love and material, but also happy to share it with others! Fourth, let children learn to be tolerant. Teach children not to care about unintentional offenses. For example, if a child accidentally steps on his own child and the child is angry, this can be inspired by the principle of "empathy": "If you accidentally step on someone else's foot, others will not play with you. Are you happy? " It is easy for a child to understand if he puts himself in another role. In addition, parents should also help their children evaluate others comprehensively, pay more attention to his advantages, and don't cling to his shortcomings. Friends are difficult to get along with because of their own shortcomings. Facing the social situation of the only child, if parents can grasp the scale of love and give their children the correct communication attitude and skills from an early age, I believe that the seedlings in the greenhouse can also thrive in nature!