Let me talk about you first. Don't run to your parents' house every time you quarrel. How do couples divide their work in educating their children? Who is responsible for life security, who is responsible for study security, etc. My suggestion is: I can imagine you running back in a way that you like and the children can accept. You will definitely complain to your mother's house and hurt your husband. Sounds like it's all your own fault.

There is no fixed answer to how to allocate, which needs to be analyzed according to the specific situation of the family, but in general, the education of the father lies in behavior and personality, and the focus of the mother lies in the formation of habits; What is going back? People go out by themselves, that is to say, no matter right or wrong, people go first, and they have consciously avoided this matter. You just have to stop, stop as soon as possible, and do what you want. When he comes back, everything will be as usual, just pretend that nothing happened. Wait until the gas subsides, and then speak slowly. Home is a place to intercede, don't be reasonable! How much time, who is in charge of study, or who is in charge of which subject, should be coordinated according to the time, specialty and personality of both husband and wife.

If there are any problems or difficulties, two people should sit down and discuss them well. If it is really not possible, please ask both parents to discuss countermeasures together. If you blindly avoid solving problems, it is irresponsible for children and irresponsible for marriage! Both sides calm down and face it well, nothing is impossible, and the relationship between husband and wife is the anchor of the family. Parents love each other, and children's personality will be easy to be cheerful and lively, more secure, more emotionally stable, more resistant to stress, and better able to get along and cooperate with others.

As parents, we should live in harmony with our children, buy them this and that, and buy them brand-name things. When you look at your child with loving eyes, face your child with loving smiles and inspire your child with loving words, your child will feel that he is living in the process of love. When I quarrel with my husband, I never go back to my mother's house or complain to her. After the quarrel, I will close the door to calm both sides down or go out for a long run to sort out the root of the problem. I will apologize to him immediately if I am wrong, and he will apologize to me if he is wrong.