There are always some people who have no choice but to break up before marriage, and some people feel inappropriate after marriage, or they can't continue to maintain their marriage relationship, which has ended in divorce. These failed examples also show once again that love and marriage are not taken for granted, and people need to keep growing and learning in order to keep their feelings in the best state.
Falling in love and quarreling all the time after marriage are all manifestations of the need to grow and learn. Some people think that it is common to fall in love and get married, so just do it according to your own experience. These people often feel powerless when they have conflicts with the other half and can't solve them better, and they will find that there are many difficulties to solve in getting along.
In fact, even such an ordinary and simple thing requires us to keep learning and making progress in order to get along better with the other half.
The members suggested that marriage and love education should be included in the compulsory course of the university. CPPCC, member of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference and vice chairman of Guangzhou Municipality, and Yu Xinwei, chairman of Guangzhou Municipal Committee of the Chinese Revolutionary Committee, called for the establishment and improvement of marriage and love education system in colleges and universities.
Yu Xinwei found that at present, the education of marriage and love for marriageable people in China is still in the primary exploration stage, and most of the love courses offered by colleges and universities are optional courses. How to construct and improve the marriage and love education system for college students has become an urgent problem for colleges and universities.
To this end, she suggested that marriage and love education should be a compulsory course for college students, and education on marriage and love relationship, family relationship and parent-child relationship should be carried out through classroom teaching and special lectures, and marriage and love education textbooks should be compiled in combination with actual cases.
Not only love and marriage need to learn, but everyone needs to keep learning from birth to departure. Both love and marriage need to learn, which sounds a bit unrealistic, but in fact it is the best way for everyone to get along with the other half.
Only by learning to manage one's emotions, accepting the other half as much as possible and actively listening when the other half is sad can the relationship between love and marriage be more harmonious. Therefore, this is an important issue that everyone should be aware of.
Moreover, not only love and marriage need to be studied, but everything in our life needs us to learn and grow constantly to make our life more meaningful and make us happier.