First, we can't completely deny and question the stars that children like. Because I know that most children are now in this rebellious period of adolescence. At this time, you must pay attention to the way you communicate with your children. You should stand on the basis of respecting equality.
Second, suppose you blindly vilify or even try your best to prevent children from idolizing. Sometimes it may backfire, stimulate children's rebellious psychology, and even cause more such barriers and obstacles in the communication between teachers and children.
On the contrary, as a teacher, to gain children's recognition, you should idolize with your children. In other words, you should try to get to know the star that the child likes and find out why the child likes him. In this process, you will find that there will be more common topics and languages between us and our children.
Fourth, even children will take the initiative to share with their parents why they like such stars. Then in the process, you gradually make some correct guidance.
Fifth, we should guide children to idolize rationally. Just like when we were students, if we especially liked a teacher, then our grades in this course must be particularly excellent. So in fact, children can learn positive life experiences from idols, or some positive energy for growth.
Six, but if you pay more attention to some superficial external images or some material contrast in this process. Once you go astray, it will also have some negative effects on children.
7. In this process, our guidance becomes the most crucial point after parents gain the recognition of their children and fully communicate with them. Be sure to spend more time with them at critical times and lead them to truly realize their self-worth.