Parents should not neglect and violate their children first.
Parents should first realize that educating children is not about following their children, but about educating them in a positive way. Because children are children after all, we can praise their ideas, but we should correct some incorrect practices. This open class mainly starts with several educational misunderstandings.
Let's see if several misunderstandings are all similar.
Myth 1: manage the internal affairs of children's knowledge family, and others can't manage it;
Myth 2: I can make decisions about children, and there is no need to ask them;
Myth 3: put the child's physical health first, but forget the mental health;
Myth 4: Children are disobedient. Beating and cursing is the most effective method of discipline, and you won't succeed without beating.
Myth 5: Children 14, 15 years old. If you don't like school, you won't. Going out to work can start earlier in society.
Myth 6: Both parents go out to work, and the children are looked after by the elderly. There is no need or time to care about their children's life and study.
I think there are many problems of violence, so I will elaborate on it:
I believe that many families in the previous generation have this idea, and some people in this generation have more ideas. Because of this concept, many people dare not criticize and educate their children when they think their methods of disciplining them are wrong, for fear of causing right and wrong. After all, many people think that it is good for children to educate themselves and do not need others to take care of them. Actually, it is not. There were many cases of child abuse in the past. In the camera, no matter how many times the child was beaten, she still got up silently to do her homework and eat. Does this calm face of the violence she has suffered also mean that if she encounters domestic violence outside or in her own home in the future, she will silently endure it? The common feature of many women who often suffer from domestic violence is to endure it silently until the body can't stand the torture? However, the child was beaten by his family. What can they do? They can only bear it silently and get up again. This is a silent accusation. Children are tortured by their most trusted and favorite parents. Will they trust and love others in society in the future?