1. Parents should first let their children know about their bodies.
The most direct way is to point it out to children in the form of pictures, so that children can know the names and functions of various parts, which are private, which can't be shown to others and which can't be touched. For example, underwear, underwear, which is covered by clothes, can not be touched. You can interact with children and let them point out from the picture.
2. Let children know what is safe contact and what is unsafe contact.
Safe contact is a hug from mom and dad, or a clap with friends. Unsafe contact means that someone tries to touch underwear or the place covered by underwear. These places must not be touched. But when mom and dad are around, the doctor will check these parts of your body. This is possible.
While telling children not to let people touch their private parts, they should also tell him not to touch other people's private parts, and tell him that this is also uncivilized behavior.
3. Tell children what to do in the face of threats
In many people's actual child sexual abuse cases, many children did not tell their parents at the first time because they were threatened. For example, if you dare to tell anyone, I will kill your parents. So parents should educate their children not to believe what bad people say. As long as the bad guys tell their parents, the bad guys will be arrested by the police uncle and won't hurt anyone.
4. Tell your child that sexual assault is not his fault.
Children may not have much concept of the word sexual assault and don't know what happened when they were sexually assaulted. They just think it may be a bad thing. Don't tell adults about bad things, for fear of being blamed by adults.
Therefore, when persuading children, you should tell them "You have done nothing wrong, don't be afraid, it's not your fault, Mom and Dad won't blame you, Mom and Dad love you", so be sure to let them tell them all the good or bad things, and tell them not to be afraid, and Mom and Dad will definitely help you.
Extended data
Children need to be protected after being sexually assaulted.
China's protection of children after sexual assault is relatively weak, mainly consisting of three major rescues:
The first is physiological assistance. Physiological assistance means going to the hospital to see a doctor. Hair, body fluids, scratches and site residues must be obtained. This is called five cards.
The second is legal aid. Legal aid should tell children that sexual assault cases are serious criminal offences. Never let the bad guys escape, they must be brought to justice. Moreover, after girls are sexually assaulted, reputation protection is very important, and no media can report it.
The last one is psychological assistance. There are sexual assault rescue centers abroad, and there are even many women who have been sexually assaulted before. They are willing to voluntarily tell these young girls how to get out of their psychological shadows.