Parents must be careful when educating their children, not everything can be said, because children's understanding ability is not very strong. Communicate with children in a way that they can accept. If the language is too harsh or soft, the child will not understand it. Parents are the best teachers for their children, and they will set an example for them. Parents must pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children, and never talk nonsense. Some parents think that their children should know something, so they will tell them everything that happened at home. At this time, the child will be afraid, because he can't bear such great psychological pressure at a young age, so the child will definitely collapse at that time. When children don't have that psychological endurance, don't say anything to them, but consider their own endurance, and that's all. Children don't often send messages. What parents say to their children will be immediately passed on to another person, which may lead to an embarrassing situation for parents to get along with others. This is only suitable for your own home, not for outsiders. When I was a child, my parents didn't want me to play with one of the children. They told me the shortcomings of this child, and then I immediately passed this on to another child. At this time, the children's parents were particularly angry, and then their parents blamed me for passing on the information to them. But at that time, in my opinion, I didn't know how to keep a secret, and I didn't know what to say and what not to say, so I still had to be careful in front of the children. I think if it's a happy thing at home, we can talk to our children more. If it is sad, try not to tell the child. Children's childhood should be happy. Don't let your child's childhood be full of sadness, which is not good for his future development. If children are always immersed in sad emotions when they are young, they will feel more and more inferior after entering the society.