How to avoid becoming a self-moving mother? What points should be paid attention to when the mother's efforts disgust the child? 1. Treat children fairly and pay attention to them. Most parents don't think too much about their children's language and personal behavior because their children are still young, but even the youngest children will have some self-esteem and their own ideas and opinions. Therefore, when parents make choices or decisions for their children, they can discuss with their children a little, listen to their thoughts, treat their children fairly and treat them as mature people, which can avoid many contradictions.

Parents don't have to blame their children for their own choices. Whether parents choose to take care at home is their obligation and responsibility. Don't attribute all these factors to your children, and feel that your dissatisfaction and inaction are all due to your children, and you will become this state because of your children. This kind of idea and viewpoint is very evasive.

You are an adult, too. I think this choice is well thought out. Children must be accompanied and educated by their parents when they grow up. This is what parents should do, not conditional. Therefore, parents should be responsible for their own choices, and they should not push their luck to instill them in their children.

3. Control your emotions. Everything is because you love your parents to control your emotions properly. When I feel helpless or collapsed, adjust myself, because it is because of my love for my children that I can pay without hesitation.

You can choose to love your children instead of having an additional standard. In order to get the children involved, you can't touch the children by touching yourself, because everyone should do their part. Your children are also trying to grow up and let their parents develop in the process, but for your children's sake, please restrain your emotions.

Automatic language violence should not be blamed on children, but on parents' own problems, because we didn't see our own value, didn't find ourselves and lost our way, which led to the collapse, so please adjust your situation and emotions, because everything is alive because of love.