From ancient times to the present, there are countless family rules of celebrities, and it is these family rules that have taught their descendants the foundation of being a man and maintained the prosperity of a family for several generations or even more.
In modern times, good family rules and family instructions can also help children develop good quality and establish good character. For example, there are 10 family rules set by a mother for her children. Although simple and popular, it is very practical and worth learning by all parents!
Russian writer and philosopher herzen once said: "Politeness is the most important thing in life, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge."
Mother's first family rule aims at cultivating children's manners.
Parents should tell their children from an early age that when they meet relatives, friends and neighbors on the road, they should say hello and say "hello!" " After receiving a gift from others and getting help, you should express your gratitude and say, "Thank you!" " After causing trouble to others, apologize and say, "I'm sorry!" " .
Many lively children are actually a little "crazy". They like to run around in public and talk loudly, and sometimes they make strange noises on purpose. Parents should educate their children from an early age, don't disturb others in public, and improve their children's cultivation from trivial matters.
Many children have less communication with their parents, and things accumulate in their hearts. When they can't figure it out, they are easily affected by depression.
Therefore, this mother will tell her children that happy or sad things can be shared with her father or mother, but not in her heart.
Many parents will teach their children not to fight and get into trouble ... but there will be conflicts between children. If you don't want your child to be an "abuser" or a "doormat", you should teach him not to take the initiative to hit people or hurt others, but you can fight back if you are bullied, and you can't bully them casually.
Parents should let their children know through this rule that everyone has their own things to do and responsibilities to bear, not only to do their own things well, but also to ensure that they can't escape their responsibilities and obligations by cheating.
Parents should let their children know that when eating at relatives and friends' homes, they should express their gratitude, not be picky. This is the basic etiquette of being a man.
Parents should let their children know that everyone is an independent individual, everyone is different, there is no need for comparison, and they cannot compare with others.
And parents should also be careful not to compare "other people's children" with their own children, otherwise don't blame their own children for comparison.
Although there is no shortage of food at home now, children should understand that food is precious and cannot be wasted at will. This is not only a traditional virtue, but also a basic table manners.
Parents should teach their children to organize toys, books and other items from an early age, and they should not let their children develop sloppy habits. Especially after primary school, children must learn to manage their belongings and arrange them at will.
Finally, the most important family rule is to tell children that life safety is the first priority at all times. When in danger, you don't need to follow any rules! The first thing you should do is to protect yourself!
A set of safety education picture books, Lucky Milla Safety Education Picture Book, has more stories, totaling 50 volumes, which are divided into five themes: behavior, psychology, outdoor, home and accident (each theme can be purchased separately).
Share 50 safety issues that parents easily overlook. Through the story of Milla's meeting with danger and saving the day, some possible safety problems are emphasized to children.
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