The rebellious period is a bit like breaking out of a cocoon. He is in a transitional stage. Because of his poor coordination, his own contradictions aggravate the contradictions of external interpersonal relationships. This is not a person's personality problem, but a critical period of internal and external contradictions, which needs more concern and attention. Family and friends should help him through this dangerous period, and don't think that he is disobedient or alienated because of his temper or personality. This period needs more love to solve this contradiction, not to lubricate this conflict. In fact, children always want to be recognized by adults from the bottom of their hearts, and parents also want to have prestige in their children's hearts. In fact, everyone wants to love each other; It's just that many times we can't express our ideas correctly, but do what everyone can recognize to truly and effectively achieve the satisfaction of both sides. Parents sometimes need to adjust their mentality. We can't treat changing children with one method, one thinking and one caliber for more than ten years. They have changed. Your way of education and your relationship with them should be changed. Many times, adults always face their children with stubborn authority, which will inevitably lead to "rebellion." Without this rebellious period, adults will never realize their complacency. Without this period, the so-called rebellion in the eyes of parents is just that children are no longer as easy to deal with as they were when they were children, but no longer regard them as heaven and earth. This is normal for children, indicating that they have their own thoughts and judgments, which is growth. )