At the same time, parents are always afraid of their children's subconscious "ingratitude", do not take their parents' sacrifices seriously, and like to emphasize their difficulties repeatedly.
Ways to make children grateful
1, parents set an example.
Family is the first and forever school for children. Parents are children's first and forever teachers. Parents care and appreciate the elderly themselves and others, and children will naturally be affected. Especially when you accept help, you must express your gratitude.
2. Let the children start by thanking their parents.
Parents should let their children understand their parents' hard work. Consciously bring children to their own work site, let them participate in labor together, let them personally feel the hardships of their parents' work, and it is not easy to make money. What parents pay is not taken for granted. Every year, Spring Festival, Father's Day, Mother's Day, Double Ninth Festival and other festivals are the best time to educate children about gratitude.
You can tell your child in advance: "Today is a holiday. Mom and dad have worked hard for so long. Should I thank my parents? " Then you can help the children make an "exclusive gift" together. When receiving the gift, remember to thank the child for his contribution: "Thank you, you love your father so much, which really makes him very happy!" " "This can make children feel happy from being thanked, so they are more willing to help others.
3. Start from the dribs and drabs of daily life
Let children participate in labor and turn gratitude into an action. Parents should know that children's good quality and good behavior are constantly cultivated. Parents should let their children start from details and start from small things. In order to let children know how to respect others and be grateful to everyone, parents can cultivate their children's good habits from "thank you, good night".
4. Let children learn to be grateful in comparison.
Parents can take their children to visit orphanages or hospitals for the disabled, and encourage and organize their children to make friends with children in poor areas. Let children experience things they didn't know, didn't care about or cherish in the past, and change their indifference, thus arousing their sympathy, cherishing their blessings and gratitude.
If your child knows how to say "thank you" every time he receives help; Know how to care and be grateful to family and friends, then congratulations, your child has a grateful heart.