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A few days ago, Wang Hao, a male kindergarten teacher in Wuchang District, received a trophy from his students. The difference is that the trophy held by Mr. Wang Hao was made by the students themselves, and the prize given to him by his classmates was the "Best Comb Award".

It turns out that Wang Hao is the best teacher in the whole kindergarten. There are 17 female students in his class. Every day when the children take a nap, Teacher Wang Hao will dress them up beautifully.

To this end, Mr. Wang Hao also specially spent two years learning to comb his hair. He can not only comb ordinary braids and braids of Pteris vittata, but also comb children's favorite Princess Aisha's hairstyle. In her class, more than half of the girls order this hairstyle every day.

Children like Rainbow Hao very much, and they prefer Wang Hao to comb their hair. In order to repay him, a girl in the class and her grandmother made a trophy for Wang Hao: "Our teacher Wang combs my hair beautifully every day. This trophy was made by my family and I personally, and it was given to Mr. Wang, who will comb my hair the most! " Netizen: I want the same teacher.

Teacher Wang Hao's love for the children is touching, but in this incident, the little girl's gratitude to the teacher has to be praised. In fact, it is very important for children to be grateful now.

Many parents work hard when they take care of their children, making them feel that adults have taken their efforts for granted and have never been grateful. But in fact, gratitude is especially important for children.

1. Gratitude can make children have better empathy.

Now many parents will complain that their children simply don't understand their own sufferings. They only know how to reach out to their parents for east and west, but they never thought that what their parents gave them was obtained through a lot of efforts.

In fact, this is precisely because children lack gratitude and take too much for granted. If parents can teach their children how to be grateful, children can understand their parents' situation.

This is a very good training for children's empathy. Grateful children are more considerate of the hardships of others and understand the difficulties of their parents. When they grow up, their good empathy can also help them get along with others better.

2. Gratitude can make children have better popularity.

In this world, most people are full of goodwill. But the expression of goodwill between people needs to be deepened through feedback. In other words, a person who likes to help others will be more motivated to continue doing this kind of thing if he is thanked by the person being helped.

Similarly, when our children are helped by others, if children can thank others and give positive feedback, they will have a better impression of their children, and it will be easier for them to help their children and make friends with them in the future. Slowly, the popularity of children will get better and better.

Grateful people will be kind themselves.

People who are grateful to others are actually kind. Having a grateful heart means that children can find things around them that move them, which means that they also have a soft heart.

Just like Mr. Wang's student, Mr. Wang thinks he is just doing his job, but the student is very grateful for everything he has done. He has devoted himself to giving Mr. Wang the greatest reward he feels. In this process, she also showed a very kind side, not only taking care of Mr. Wang's emotions, but also doing a very touching thing.

Every parent should know that it is better to teach children to be grateful than to spoil them blindly. Children with soft hearts are more worthy of love than those who only know how to study but don't understand the hard work of their parents.

Then, how should parents cultivate their children, let them know how to be grateful and have a grateful heart?

(1) Empathy

First of all, parents should tell their children that they should learn to put themselves in others' shoes whenever possible. Learning empathy is a harbinger of good empathy. People who can empathize with others will be more willing to put themselves in others' shoes and better feel the feelings of others doing everything.

For example, if children can think from the perspective of their parents, they can understand the hard work of going out early and returning late every day and all the sacrifices they make for their children. In this process, they will be more considerate of their parents, and they will know how much their love is worth cherishing.

(2) Learn to take care of others

When children learn to put themselves in others' shoes, parents can let them try to take care of others. For children who can put themselves in others' shoes, they can be very keenly aware of others' feelings and difficulties. At this time, giving appropriate help according to each other's situation is the best training method.

Parents can start from themselves, learn to show weakness, and let their children feel that they also have great strength and can do a lot for their parents. In this process, let children learn to take care of their parents, and when they leave home, they will gradually learn to take care of others. Similarly, they can feel the feelings of those who take care of them and protect them, and they are full of gratitude.

(3) Learn to feel the goodwill of the other party and say "thank you"

Goodwill is a very precious thing in this world. Many parents teach their children how to protect themselves and refuse others, but never tell them how to feel the kindness of those who love them.

It is good for children to protect themselves, but in this process, they should also learn to distinguish between good people and bad people, and learn to feel the goodwill of those who care about and love them. At the same time, we should show positive feedback to these goodwill, say thank you to them and do something to express our gratitude.

For children, gratitude means that they can be more considerate of others, and it also means that they will have a better popularity. Therefore, parents must learn to teach their children to be grateful and let them learn to express their gratitude for all kindness.

What do you think of grateful children? How do you think parents should cultivate their children to have a grateful heart? Please leave your opinion below.